It's really unlucky to find myself, and being looked down on all kinds of jokes. Am I really too weak?

Maybe we will find that people who have their own defects will think a lot after being laughed at. The first thing that comes to mind is that they blame themselves, are angry with themselves, why they are not perfect, and why bad luck comes to them. In fact, you don't have to be angry with yourself at all. Everyone has shortcomings. Maybe your shortcomings are obvious, but you just have to live your own life as long as you don't interfere with others. If you even dislike yourself, don't expect others to like you much. In fact, it's no big deal to think about it. There are many people in the world who don't suffer more from you. Cherish your present life.

2. Don't be angry with others

There will be many people who will especially hate those who laugh at themselves after others laugh at them. In fact, this is unnecessary. You don't live with those people. Those who laugh at you can only say that they are just passers-by in your life. It's not worthwhile to be angry for these people. Live the life you want, and don't care too much about other people's eyes, unless you really go too far, that is, you should change.

3. Control your emotions

Learn to control your emotions. When others laugh at you, although you can't accept others' ridicule blindly, you should also learn to protect yourself. If you get angry, it means that you care, which is just an uncertainty for yourself. In the face of others' ridicule, you can laugh it off and make yourself strong enough, so that you will suffer less damage and your shortcomings can be corrected slowly.

No one is without shortcomings. Everyone has his own shortcomings and advantages. We often pay special attention to what others think of us and what others think of us. In fact, everyone wants to be perfect in others' eyes and to be praised by others. However, many people are born with defects in some aspects, and people always laugh at themselves.