In "A Dream of Red Mansions", it was Xiangyun who said that Daiyu looked like an "actor". Why was Daiyu angry with Baoyu?

Jia’s mother celebrated Baochai’s fifteenth birthday. After the opera was over, Sister Feng felt that she needed to liven up the atmosphere, so she specially pulled the senior official out and said: This child looks like a person. Look. Like who?

This is the subtlety of Sister Feng. She was obviously the one who started the conversation, but she refused to say clearly who it was and let others do the offending things.

Why is it so shameful to compare Lin Daiyu to an actor? Because in ancient times, actors were considered low-class, and their social status was even lower than that of prostitutes. Moreover, most of the children who learned opera in ancient times had both parents deceased and their families were extremely poor. Otherwise, their parents would not be willing to let their children go through the hardships of learning opera at such a young age for the entertainment of others.

After all, Lin Daiyu is a serious lady of the Lin family. While saying that she looks like an actor who is worse than a prostitute, she also satirizes that both of her parents died (Daiyu’s mother died early and her father died recently). Even if Daiyu If you are not that sensitive, you should never make such a joke.

Baoyu was the second to see it, but he didn't "dare" say anything. He was afraid that his beloved Sister Lin would be angry, so even though he saw it, he just suppressed it and didn't say anything.

On the other hand, Xiangyun is not as well-educated as Xue Baochai, who cares about the dignity of others, nor does she care about Sister Lin as much as Brother Bao does, fearing that Sister Lin will be sad. She is both willing to speak out and Dare to say, this layer of window paper was pierced in one fell swoop.

Xiang Yun just said it, and added the word "lively like" Sister Lin. This was because he was afraid that the knife would not penetrate deeply enough, so he had to add an adjective.

Xiangyun had always been at odds with Daiyu, and now he was making fun of her like this, which naturally made Daiyu angry.

Baoyu originally had nothing to do with her, but at this juncture, Baoyu insisted on being a "peacemaker" and defended Xiangyun, fearing that she would offend Daiyu and Xiangyun would notice it and not appreciate it. Also annoyed.

Only Baochai is like a wild crane in the clouds, waiting to watch the show.

Before Daiyu came to Jia's house, Xiangyun also stayed in Jia's house for a while. She was the most precious Yun girl in Jia's mother's heart and the most important sister Yun in Baoyu's eyes. Shi Ye was as outspoken and unabashed as she is now, so why didn't anyone criticize her?

But when Lin Daiyu came, everything changed. Especially her childhood sweetheart, Brother Bao, now has another girl in her heart, which makes her unable to speak casually, for fear that if she accidentally offends Lin Daiyu, her Brother Bao will come to settle the score with him.

Originally, there was no room for men to get involved in the bickering and anger between best friends. If a man really wants to get involved, he can only choose to side with one person clearly. If he wants to get the best of both worlds like Baoyu, he will only end up in a different place.

Baoyu was obviously afraid that Xiangyun would offend Daiyu, but Xiangyun thought: So what if I offend Daiyu, she is the lady of the family, and I am a poor maid, so I can't offend her? Aren't you just afraid that your sister Lin will be wronged and come here to accuse me? You still put on a face that is good for me, who would believe you?

Xiangyun felt that now the Jia Mansion had become Lin Daiyu’s territory, and Brother Bao had also become Lin Daiyu’s forbidden favorite. She could no longer do whatever she wanted as before, and she had to look at Lin Daiyu’s eyes everywhere. That's why she clamored to pack her bags and go back, so as not to cause trouble for herself in other people's sphere of influence.

Of course Daiyu was annoyed with Xiangyun about this matter, but what Daiyu was even more annoyed with was Baoyu.

Baoyu noticed from the beginning that Daiyu looked like an actor. Although he suppressed it, he already had this idea in his mind.

That's not all, Xiang Yun said it outright. Baoyu's first instinct was: Sister Lin is more sensitive and no one else will tell her. Why do you, Sister Yun, have to say it to offend others?

After Lin Daiyu left the table angrily, the first person Baoyu wanted to explain and comfort was Xiangyun. However, Xiangyun didn't appreciate it, so Baoyu came to Lin Daiyu, hoping to get Daiyu's understanding.

When a man encounters this kind of thing, he can only choose one of the two, and cannot think of having the best of both worlds.

Even if you think that a bowl of water will be flat, there will always be a sequence of actions, and it is difficult for people to balance.

Daiyu asked Baoyu sharply here: What does it have to do with you if I am annoyed with her? She offended me, what does it have to do with you?

Everyone loves but there is no true love.

To be merciful is to be ruthless in your heart.

Baoyu always thinks about all the daughters around Zhou Quan, but he also needs to see if the daughters around him need Zhou Quan.

Whether it is Daiyu or Xiangyun, they will not want half a precious jade.

Either you are single-minded, or you are unsympathetic.

But you want to be half-hearted to everyone, sorry, but you can’t.

So Xiangyun and Daiyu were both angry with Baoyu, and no one accepted his favor.