Ask an idiom, the allusion is like this`

Eat here and stay in the west

My answer is also the same

Volume 40 of "Art and Literature Collection" quotes "Customs": "The common sayings are all the same When a man has a daughter, two people seek him out. The son from the east family is ugly but rich, and the son from the west family is good but poor. The parents are confused and ask the daughter what she wants. 'I want to eat at home and stay at home at home.'"