"My family has no money to buy you a car, so don't get married yet." "Nothing, you can give me an iou." what do you think?

Now that young people are married, houses and cars have become necessities. If the man doesn't provide a car and a house, the marriage may turn into a farce. Originally, I thought this kind of thing would only happen on the internet and in other people's mouths, but recently this kind of thing happened to my cousin. Even if I have been in love with my boyfriend for three years, I still emphasize the house and car when I get married. I didn't understand it very well at first, but then I gradually understood her thoughts.

Xiaoxiao and her boyfriend began to fall in love when they were junior. After graduating from college, their work was gradually implemented. Then, like parents all over the country, Xiaoxiao began to face the problem of being forced to marry. In the eyes of family members, it is the only way for girls to get married and have children when they reach a certain age. Now that they have been together for three years, getting married naturally becomes a matter of course; The smiling boyfriend didn't object to getting married, so both parents found a time to get married.

At first, the parents of both sides chatted happily. Although the boy still has a younger brother at home, his parents have bought a house for Xiaoxiao's boyfriend, and Xiaoxiao is also an only child. The economic conditions are not bad, and such a marriage really seems to be a match made in heaven. However, things are always unpredictable. Xiaoxiao's parents advised the boy to buy a car when they learned that he had a younger brother. In their view, marriage is not only about buying a house, but also a car is an indispensable thing in life. If the boy's parents don't buy Xiaoxiao a car, they just don't value Xiaoxiao.

However, the boy's parents are also worried. After all, buying a house cost more than half of the family's money. If you buy a car, you will inevitably empty all your savings at home; The boy's brother is going to college this year, and it is also a time to spend money, so the man's family refused Xiaoxiao's request; In this way, two people with very good feelings, because their parents have differences, put forward a solution with a smile after many fruitless quarrels.

After work with a smile that day, I thought it would have a result, and then I called my boyfriend out to talk alone. As soon as I sat down, my boyfriend said, "My family has no money to buy you a car, or I won't get married first." Smiling, I didn't expect my boyfriend to say such a thing. At that time, his eyes were red, but he forced a smile and said, "Nothing, you can give me an iou first. In fact, my parents just want an attitude from your family. " "Impossible, there is no need to take this debt. I think we are still too young to afford to get married. Let's talk about it in a few years. " Looking at her boyfriend's serious face with a smile, I know that he is not joking, but the marriage has reached this stage. If it comes to an abrupt end now, she and her boyfriend will break up completely.

"Do you want to think about it? You know, if you terminate this marriage now, my parents can't agree with us to stay together. " Smiling and looking at her boyfriend with red eyes, her boyfriend just hesitated, said yes, and then turned and left the dessert shop. Xiaoxiao began to cry when her boyfriend stood up. From her point of view, how did things come to this? Is it really wrong to do it yourself?

Smile cried for a long time in other people's strange eyes, and then came to me by taxi. After listening to the whole story, I can't say who is right or wrong, but no one is right. Laughing parents may not really want a car, they just think that they don't ask more of their daughters before marriage, and the man may look down on his daughters after marriage; The boy's family may really do everything they can for the young couple, but the woman's family's request for a car is really beyond their economic scope, but no matter what their difficulties are, the young couple really parted ways here.

Emotional information: Family members should always be considerate of each other. There are many things we can't do in the world. What we have to do is not to go against our original intention and always be kind, so that we can have the courage to face the next' red dust rolling'.