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Have you seen the TV series "Parents' Love"?

It is indeed a rare conscience drama. No matter how many times you revisit it, every experience and gain are different.

This article mainly tells the love story of Zheng Miao Genhong's officer Jiang Defu and capitalist Anjie. They loved each other, knew each other and lived together for more than 50 years.

An Jie in the play is a wayward and kind-hearted Miss Capital. Because she married Jiang Defu, she lived a happy life all her life. Even if there are occasional small contradictions, she can always resolve them and experience the life full of fireworks in the honey pot.

It is true that Angie, who is so happy, has her own little troubles. As the years passed, Angie became old and became her mother-in-law. At this time, she met the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I remember an Jie quarreling with the daughter-in-law of his third son Jiang Weimin, which was so Japanese.

Wei Min and his wife, Xu Hong, have been living in Anjie and Jiang Defu's house since they were laid off.

Angie cooked three meals a day for their family of three, but Xu Hong was ungrateful. As a daughter-in-law, Xu Hong got up on time for breakfast on the first day. Later, she didn't get up on time and didn't help with any housework.

In this regard, An Jie and Jiang Defu are both dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law: "You say, how did Weimin marry such a daughter-in-law, so lazy?"

Daughter-in-law Xu Hong muttered, "What if you are the daughter-in-law of the Chiang family? This daughter-in-law has to be an ox and a horse. Is it so hard for me to attract people? This is the difficulty of relying on others. "

Mother-in-law Anjie and daughter-in-law Xu Hong, the contradiction between them is getting stronger and stronger, and they can't stand each other.

Later, Xu Hong transferred her dissatisfaction with Anjie to her daughter Ya. She lost her temper and yelled at Ya.

As a mother-in-law, Angie couldn't help it any longer. She said angrily, "If you want to live in this house, stay here. If you want to make trouble, get out at once. "

Seeing this scene, Weimin quickly persuaded: "Mom, why do you talk like this?"

An Jie said domineering: "as parents, we should have done our duty to raise you long ago." If you are in trouble, we can help, but you must be conscious and measured. "

The young couple replied in a low voice, "How can it be unconscious and out of proportion?"

An Jie then went back: "You slept until late in the morning, is this awake?" Still yelling here, do you still know how to be tested? "

Seeing her daughter-in-law bow her head, she looked aggrieved but unconvinced.

An Jie sighed, and then said, "Xu Hong, I tell you, your requirements for you are not high. I have given you enough face. In this family, you must find your place. Don't feel inferior or arrogant. Pay attention to your identity and do your own thing.

I won't dispute this matter with you today. Try it again in the future. "

Hearing that her mother-in-law was so domineering and justified, Xu Hong knew that she had lost her mind and had to cry bitterly.

Later, Xu Hong got up on time and began to help with some housework, such as mopping the floor. This mother-in-law farce has come to an end.

Some people say that Angie can be happy all her life because she married the right person and has a Jiang Defu who loves her deeply.

That's true, but in my opinion, Angie is so happy because she can handle everything clearly, such as the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

A good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is formed by two people cherishing each other and managing each other; A bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires only one person to create contradictions.

What should I do if I meet the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

Respect each other and maintain a sense of boundaries.

If mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to live in harmony, they must follow the principle of "who is at home and who listens to them". As the saying goes, do as the Romans do. For example, Xu Hong, the daughter-in-law in "Parents' Love", came to her husband's family, so she should follow Anjie's habit.

If she is not used to it, as a daughter-in-law, she can move out and start her own small family. On the contrary, in the small family of Xu Hong and Weimin, Anjie has no right to manage, let alone interfere too much. This is called mutual respect and maintaining a sense of boundaries.

(2) Follow the spouse first, then follow the parent-child relationship.

Anyway, as a married woman, please understand that the man you love most in this world is your husband, not your son.

If we mistakenly put the parent-child relationship in the first place, "be close to the son and stay away from the husband", then we will only cultivate an uncompetitive mother-in-law son, cause harm to the son, create conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and make it difficult for families to live in harmony.

At this point, as a mother-in-law, Anjie did a good job and carried it clearly. An Jie has always put Jiang Defu in the first place, with a clear distinction between right and wrong. He has never spoiled his son and has no intention of "robbing men" with his daughter-in-law.

Put yourself in the right position and be grateful.

Whether as a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, we should straighten our position, pay attention to our identity, know how to master the sense of proportion and strengthen our cultivation.

The mother-in-law is not her own mother, and the daughter-in-law is not her own daughter. As a mother-in-law, treat other people's daughters as your own; As a daughter-in-law, you should respect your mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not antagonistic, but auxiliary comrades. Only by thanking each other, not taking each other's kindness for granted, and having a harmonious family can the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live a comfortable and happy life.

Finally, I hope everyone can carry on like Anjie, solve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intelligently and have a happy old age.

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