People who go up the mountain should not laugh at those who go down.

Don't be arrogant when you are proud, and don't be depressed when you are frustrated.

A while ago, I was deeply moved by what Chen said to college students studying acting in the program "Grade One".

He warned young people:

If you think about it carefully, the words "going up and down the mountain" are simple but full of profound philosophy of life.

Life is like climbing a mountain. Climb to the top and learn how to go down the mountain.

Going up the mountain is not frivolous, going down the mountain is not giving up, and finding your own position can make the tortuous life go smoothly.

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Read such a fable.

When the lion was asleep, a mouse ran past his nose and the lion was awakened.

He flew into a rage, raised his paw and knocked the mouse to the ground. The mouse begged for mercy: "Lion King, please leave me alone, and I will definitely repay you later."

Seeing this poor little thing in front of him, the lion raised his paw and let the mouse go.

Then one day, the lion was foraging in the forest, but unfortunately he fell into the trap set by the hunter and could not move.

Unexpectedly, the mouse heard the noise and got out of the grass. It bit the net with a few strokes and saved the lion.

Although the story is short, the truth is profound.

The lion thinks he can do anything, but sometimes in prison, although the mouse is ugly, it can save lives at a critical moment.

The world is changing and the situation is always changing. No one can forever strong, and no one will be weak forever.

Being in a high position and keeping a low profile can be stable and far-reaching.

After the "An Shi Rebellion" was pacified, Guo Ziyi, who had made great contributions, was not proud, but more cautious.

Once, Guo Ziyi was ill, and a small official named Qilu went to visit him.

Guo Ziyi, who had been receiving visitors with a smile before, asked the harem and geisha around him to avoid one by one when Qilu arrived, and sat down to talk with Qilu alone.

Family don't understand, ask him why, Guo Ziyi thoughtfully for a moment and said:

"This official is quite talented and will definitely rise to a high position in the future; And he looks terrible and narrow-minded. If you are afraid, it will hurt his self-esteem. Once he comes to power, we will be in big trouble. "

However, other officials did not take this into account. When they saw that Qilu was just a small official, they laughed and insulted him.

Later, as Guo Ziyi expected, Qilu was promoted repeatedly and became prime minister.

Those who looked down on Qilu and offended him when he was in a humble position were executed by him in various names.

Only Guo Ziyi, not only avoided the disaster, but also was respected by Qilu.

As a great hero of the imperial court, Guo Ziyi did not neglect others because of his aristocratic status, but kept a low-key and thoughtful life.

It is this humility that saved his family and won respect for himself.

Life is alive and fate is ups and downs. One second, the spring breeze is still proud, and the next second may fall to the bottom.

When you are on the mountain, you can't do everything. If you are a man, you will leave a mark.

When you are in a high position, you learn to treat others as human beings, respect others and be solemn.

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The writer Lian Yue once received a letter from a reader.

The writer said that he was not good-looking, had a bad background and had no education. I'm not married in my thirties, and I feel inferior to others everywhere.

Lian Yue only replied to him: "A person who looks down on himself can hardly succeed in his life."

In life, we all inevitably encounter setbacks, or our dreams are laughed at, or our abilities are questioned.

However, the lower your position in life, the more you should respect yourself.

Chen/kloc-entered Tianjin at the age of 0/6 to study and perform arts. He had a long walk-on experience before he became famous.

"Fight bandits today, spies tomorrow, and the Eighth Route Army the day after tomorrow ..."

The roles he takes are all standing outside the spotlight, and many times there is not even a line.

He shuttles through various large venues every day, but he has never been seen again. Sometimes the staff are in a hurry, and it is common to be scolded.

Chen didn't despise himself or complain about his bad luck, but studied the script carefully and patiently polished his acting skills.

Later, in an interview, he talked about the past with a smile:

It is this belief in himself and long-term precipitation that made Chen firmly seize the opportunity when it came, and after several years of tempering, he became a generation of film emperors.

Yu once said such a passage:

"Inferiority must be worse than arrogance.

Because an arrogant person may still seize an opportunity that does not belong to him in life, but an inferiority complex person will always lose an opportunity that belongs to him. "

When people are at a low ebb, the hardest thing is not to let others look up to you, but to look up to themselves.

Believe in yourself, you can stand firm in the storm of the world and stand up.

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Favorite sentence:

"If you are always on your high horse, you will trip over the stones on the ground sooner or later;

If you always hang your chin, you will also walk into a dark dead end because you can't see the light. "

The best posture in life is to look straight at yourself.

Read such a story.

When Yu Qian 14 years old, he took the entrance examination in Hangzhou and got to know Yu Qian, then the governor of Hangzhou.

At that time, all candidates in the government exam had to report their names one by one, and Yu Qian was silent.

Yu Qian asked why, and Yu Qian replied, "I dare not report it because I have taboos with adults."

At that time, there was a rule that subordinates should never call their superiors by their first names.

Yu Qian saw the boy's worry, so he smiled.

"He Wuji, Wei Wuji, Sun Chang Wuji, He Wuji, especially Wuji."

He skillfully used the names of three historical celebrities to tell Yu Qian not to be shy.

Yu Qian listened and calmly replied: "Zhang Xiangru, Lin Xiangru and Sima Xiangru have the same name, but they are not."

Although Zhang Xiangru, Lin Xiangru and Sima Xiangru are all called Xiangru, in fact, I am far behind you!

Between this and the past, the emotional intelligence pattern of the two can be seen.

The valuable thing about examiner Yu Qian is that although he is in a high position, he has no shelf.

The self-restraint of examinee Yu Qian lies in being able to maintain respect in front of the teacher and always be neither humble nor supercilious.

Both of them look at themselves directly, don't be frivolous or look up to others, thus making this a beautiful talk.

Mr. Jiang Yang once wrote such a passage:

This is also a true portrayal of her own life.

In his early years, Jiang Yang was beaten into a ghostly monster and shaved his head. She made her own wig and went out smiling as usual.

Sent to clean the toilet, she patiently made cleaning tools. After the task was completed, she squatted on the clean toilet to read and enjoy herself.

In her later years, Jiang Yang shocked both at home and abroad, but she never put on airs. People who come to see her in the future regard her as a friend.

No matter how low his position was before, no matter how high his position was after, Jiang Yang was not ashamed or arrogant, but lived with a normal heart, remained calm and reserved, and concentrated on his studies.

The road of life is unpredictable, there is no long-term prosperity, and there is no permanent sinking.

When life goes uphill, don't look down on those who are climbing; Standing at the top of the mountain, don't look down on people who are still at the foot of the mountain.

Don't be proud when you climb the mountain, because success is always a thing of the past; Don't give up when you go down the mountain, because the bottom will eventually pass.

There is a saying in the Book of Changes: no flattery on the top, no slander on the bottom.

No matter how tall others are, there is no need to look up; No matter how low others are, don't be arrogant.

Don't be arrogant when you are proud, and don't be depressed when you are frustrated.

Always humble and humble, and live with a normal heart.