How to fight back against a relative who is mean-mouthed

In life, we will always encounter some annoying people. They may be arrogant colleagues, relatives who talk behind their backs, or fake friends who like to compare secretly. They will always say something that makes people angry.

Do you also feel that people become more and more indifferent as they grow up? But in fact, I know that we are really not indifferent, but we really have nothing to talk about with them~

Teach you 8 tips:

1. Say good things but bad things.

Follow the other person’s words with an expressionless face and stiff tone, such as: Yes, yes, yes, everything you said is right.

2. It’s easy to say bad things.

Smile and speak in a gentle tone to rebut the other party, such as: What are you doing/Does this have anything to do with you?

3. Use boyfriend quotes.

For example: If you think so, I can’t help it.

4. Use retreat to advance.

First agree with the other party's point of view, and then use a twist to point out the other party's more fatal shortcomings.

For example, if someone says: "Why are you so stupid? Do you still need to ask such a simple question?" At this time, we can reply: "Yes, I am stupid, but I am educated."

5. Pretend to care.

After the other party has finished speaking, do not respond directly, but say a few words of concern.

For example:

Are you done? Are you thirsty? Would you like some water?

Hey, I think you look a little bad today. You have been worried a lot lately.

6. Treat others in their own way.

For example, someone said: "Your singing is really ugly." You can reply to him: "each other."

7. Quote the words of literati to criticize the other party.

For example, someone said: "I'm afraid no boys will like you when you look like this."

At this time, you can reply to her: "You know what Guo Moruo once said He said that you can cover up your own ugliness without calling others ugly. ”

You can also quote:

Qian Zhongshu: You don’t hate it, but it’s useless.

Mu Xin: Some people’s faces are as ugly as an unjust case.

8. Yi Lijing’s questioning style.

When someone criticizes you, you can imitate Yi Lijing's language style and say with an indifferent expression: "Does your family know that you talk like this? Do you think you can belittle me by saying this? Is this a form of self-comfort? Do you think I will be angry if I am not angry? Do you think I will let you go if I am angry? If you attack, you must fight back!

Don’t have so many burdens in your life. Eat when you are hungry, drink when you are thirsty, and sleep when you are sleepy. Don’t take the initiative to look for trouble. When trouble comes, you will never give up. Do it until he shuts down. to the mouth.

Just take it out and apply it directly when visiting relatives

Guaranteed not to be embarrassed and praised again and again

Whether you are going home during the Chinese New Year or meeting relatives Can you use it with your parents-in-law

or with friends and colleagues in life

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You should keep it in your little minds.

Then what you have to do is to work hard towards your goals wholeheartedly, and one day become your ideal person!