Why do I often fall into the misunderstanding of thinking, always feel that my parents are hurting me, and I will fall when I see that I have difficulties, and I will fall when I have nothing?

Did your parents raise you just to see your jokes? This is your misunderstanding. No parents will treat their children as you think, but there is something wrong with the way you communicate with your parents. You always feel that your parents are hurting you, so you will avoid all their problems. They give you advice or guidance. You must have taken the wrong road, so you are in trouble. Then your parents must be talking in the wrong way. They will think you are in trouble because you didn't listen to them. They may mean that you don't listen to them. You'll feel like you're falling when you're down. In fact, they are also helping you and worrying about you. You made this mistake because you were disobedient. There must be something wrong with the way your parents speak. You can try to communicate with them, listen to their opinions and talk about your own ideas. Get to know each other like this, and you will feel that your parents still love you. You should change your mentality, be more open-minded, and don't get stuck in it, so you will feel that you will gradually open up. The mentality will be much better and life will be a lot of fun.