How to ask your girlfriend for money?

Method 1 Based on "Maybe she suffered a lot when she was a child, so now she values money a little": write the IOU directly, ID number and signature, and she can go through legal procedures if she wants to do it. If you don't return it, completely dispel her concerns. But the disadvantage is that I don't know if your girlfriend is a rational person and will feel hurt sensitively.

The second method is based on "but now all the living expenses are borne by me, and my savings have been spent": you deliberately don't eat with her, or you deliberately don't buy yourself something for two people. I'm sure she can't help asking you why, so just tell her the truth. Then I saw her reaction. I don't think a normal girlfriend should say it's borrowed. Even if she pays for it herself, she will still give you the money. The disadvantage is that if your girlfriend is "abnormal" or turns a blind eye. . .

The third method is based on "My girlfriend seems to think that it is natural for men to spend money for women, and I am very unhappy. Is there any way to make her change her mind? " It seems that the landlord really made up for it. Of course, there are ways, but it is estimated that your girlfriend is terminally ill, so you have to be subtle. Since we live together, we naturally have a lot of time and opportunities to "guide" her. I can't say this meeting for a while. The core is to find a way to get her to spend money for you. It is not easy for her to know that the money you spent before is painful.