My brother-in-law got married and my mother-in-law asked me to borrow a house, but I refused. What do you think?

Looking at my colleagues who are talking about buying a house for marriage in the office, I have been married for more than five years, so I will naturally be the object of their consultation, but I am not willing to tell them about my wedding, let alone let my colleagues know. I only heard a male colleague say to another male colleague that you are really lucky. I heard that when you got married, your mother-in-law not only bought you a suite in full, but also married your wife with 3 thousand. Do you think the car you drove was bought with your wife's dowry?

The colleague who was teased was not angry, but frankly said that his colleagues were curious about what his wife looked like and watched them make a mess. I bowed my head helplessly and continued to eat the food my wife prepared for me when she got up in the morning. At the beginning, I felt very embarrassed because a big man brought food to the company. When I brought food to the company for the first time, I returned home hungry because I was afraid that my colleagues would laugh at me.

Later, after many times, I got used to it, and my colleagues didn't laugh at me because of this, but said that I married a virtuous and good wife. After washing the bowl from the pantry, I found that there were few people left in the office. They should have gone to eat. My colleague, who has a good relationship with me, is pulling me to talk to him. This colleague is seven or eight years younger than me. The reason for our good relationship is that her girlfriend is very similar to my wife. Since he came to work in this company, he has brought me the same food to the company every day.

He said that they are saving money to buy a house and get married. I think he really looks like me seven or eight years ago. After chatting for a while, he said that he was going to get married. After I gave him a few serious blessings, he said that he was not going to buy a house, and I didn't ask him why. On my way home from work, I happened to meet my mother-in-law. She said she was going to my house, so I let her get on the bus and took her back with me.

Mother-in-law is different from the past. Today, she is very enthusiastic and has said a lot to me, but she has never got to the point, so I don't know what she really wants to say. It's just that when I lost power and she said my brother-in-law was getting married, I seemed to understand something. She must want something. Sure enough, she made a request that surprised me. She said, as you know, your brother-in-law is not as promising as you, and now he is not young. He is also old enough to get married. His aunt didn't ask him to buy a house, but she just wanted a place to get married.

My brother-in-law's married mother-in-law asked me to borrow a house, but I refused. Actually, I hesitated before I refused. After all, this house is only for my brother-in-law to get married, and he doesn't live with my parents, let alone give it to him. But when I think about when I married my wife, because my family conditions were not very good at that time, although I had a job, I couldn't afford to buy a house in this city. My mother-in-law was not very satisfied with my son-in-law, so she deliberately embarrassed me and said that if I didn't buy a house, her daughter wouldn't marry me.

In the end, my mother went to her mother's house in tears, borrowed money from her sisters and paid the down payment for this house. Now my mother-in-law has asked me to borrow the house to marry her brother-in-law, and naturally I don't want to. After I refused, my mother-in-law asked me to park on the side of the road, and she left without looking back. I was in a bad mood when I got home. When my wife saw me coming back, she came over to help me with my bag and lunch box. I really didn't think much at that time, so I asked my wife about it directly. She probably didn't know and looked at me with some surprise.

after I told her that I refused her mother's request, she didn't say anything. I heard a noise in the kitchen and looked at my wife puzzled. I covered my mouth with tears when I saw the person in the kitchen. This person was none other than my mother. How could she be here? My mother told me that my wife must take her over to support the elderly. I turned to look at my wife, who smiled and didn't speak. My wife did this to me, so I should put the past behind me and treat her relatives sincerely, shouldn't I? Should I lend my house to my brother-in-law to get married?