Children's parents and grandparents have different educational concepts. How to deal with this situation?

Let me tell a story first: we have a child who has entered the middle class and his grandparents support him. His parents and grandparents don't live together, but as long as they are together, the child won't wear clothes or eat, so he will be very comfortable and enjoy waiting for his grandparents to serve him. Mom said that once I couldn't communicate with my grandfather, I wanted to win my job. As a result, grandpa said, let's feed it. We have nothing to do, and we just want to do something for the children. ?

After listening to this story, one thing can be explained: grandparents and parents treat their children from absolutely different angles. Grandparents want to enjoy family happiness more, and may not have time to take care of their children when they were young. It is difficult to ask their grandchildren to think like their parents. Different mentality determines that they can't empathize with your feelings, because you are responsible and their responsibility to their children has been completed. ? When children grow up, they will always remember that they have a kind grandparents. There is nothing wrong with this cognition.

Therefore, education is best done by parents. If grandparents' management style is too indulgent, parents can choose to reduce contact appropriately. Let the children meet their grandparents once a week. The children feel kind, their grandparents are happy and they are not so tired.

In fact, children are very close to grandparents, which can only be understood in life and cannot be evaluated by teaching significance. The harmony of family relations should not be used in the form of education. Children's growth depends on their parents' personal education, and what kind of parents have children. As parents, we should start from the process of children's own growth and give them what kind of growth environment, so as to live with grandparents better and not fall into a wrong reason of abusing love. Children are born, he knows how to be warm and cold, but grandparents only take care of his life and don't impose knowledge on him. No matter how much grandparents give their grandchildren, it is also an interest in life, not a subject. I believe that children will live and study better if they are separated from their grandparents.