Three essays with more than 500 topics: 1 self-esteem, let me participate, and I will send them before 3 o'clock.

Yi Ming

I once heard such a story:

When businessmen saw a pencil salesman in rags, they suddenly felt pity. Without thinking, he stuffed 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he quickly returned and apologized for forgetting to take the pen. I hope you don't mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are both businessmen like me."

A year later, in a warm and grand social occasion, a salesman in a suit and tie met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always thought I was a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I was a businessman like you. "

I didn't expect such a simple business statement to make a person who is not without inferiority suddenly build up self-esteem and make a person in trouble regain self-confidence. It is with this self-esteem and self-confidence that he saw his own value and advantages and finally succeeded through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there were no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even giving him several thousand yuan would not help, and there would never be a huge change from self-admission to self-confidence. This is respect, and this is the power of respect!

Respect is a kind of cultivation, a kind of character, an equal treatment of others, and a full affirmation of others' personality and value. No one can be perfect. We have no reason to judge others with lofty eyes, and we are not qualified to laugh at others with indifferent eyes. If others are inferior to ourselves in some ways, we can't hurt others' self-esteem with arrogance and disrespect; If we are inferior to others in some places, we don't have to replace our due respect with inferiority or jealousy. A person who truly knows how to respect others is bound to face the strong and weak in all undertakings, all the luck and misfortune in life with an equal attitude, a normal heart and a calm mood.

Respect is a spring breeze, a clear spring, a warm sleeping pill and an inspiring tonic. It often complements sincerity, humility, tolerance, appreciation, kindness and friendliness, and is incompatible with hypocrisy, arrogance, harshness, ridicule, malice and snobbery. Give respect to successful people and show admiration, praise and pursuit of others' success; Giving respect to those who fail is sympathy, comfort and encouragement to others after their failure. As long as there is respect, there is true feelings in the world, and there is hope in the future. After success, there will be continuous progress, and after failure, there will be a comeback.

Respect is not blind worship, nor disgusting flattery; It is not unprincipled humility, nor is it condescending without self-esteem. Knowing the importance of respecting others does not mean learning how to respect others. In this sense, respect is also a science. When you learn to respect others, you learn to respect yourself, and you also learn and master a major meaning of life.

Let's savor and explore slowly on the road of life!

Give back peaches-exchange gifts/favors

-The charm of respect

Yang Suifang

A person's taste is mainly manifested in the process of getting along with others. /kloc-john donne, an English poet in the 0/7th century, said in his poem for whom the bell tolls: "No one can live alone in the sea like an island, and everyone is like a small piece of soil, connected with the whole land. If a piece of soil is washed away by the sea, there will be a corner in Europe, like a canyon, as well as your friends and yourself. " This poem tells us that no one can live alone and everyone should get along with others. If you want to be popular, you should sincerely care about and respect others.

John dewey, the most learned philosopher in the United States, said: "The most profound driving force in human nature is the importance of hope." Everyone comes to this world with a desire to be respected, cared for and affirmed. When you meet his requirements, he will glow with great enthusiasm for what you respect and become your good friend.

A salesman once said such an example. His job is to attract customers for Johnson & Johnson, one of which is a drug grocery store. Every time he goes to this store, he always talks with the clerk at the counter before he goes to see the owner. One day, when he went to this store, the owner suddenly told him that he didn't have to come again. He doesn't want to buy Johnson & Johnson products, because many of Johnson & Johnson's activities are designed for food markets and cheap shops, which is not good for small drugstores. The shop assistant had to leave the shop. He drove around the town for a long time and finally decided to go back to the store and explain the situation clearly.

When he entered the store, he greeted the clerk at the counter as usual, and then went in to see the owner. The shopkeeper was very happy to see him, smiled and welcomed him back, and ordered 1 times more goods than usual. The salesman was surprised and didn't understand what happened after he left the store. The shopkeeper pointed to a boy selling drinks on the counter and said, after you left the store, the boy selling drinks came up to me and told me that you were the only salesman who came to the store to say hello to him. He told me that if anyone is worth doing business with, it should be you. The shopkeeper agreed with this view and became the best customer of the salesman from now on. The salesman said? Quot I will never forget that caring and respecting everyone is a quality we must have. "

Caring for and respecting others must have noble sentiments and an open mind. When you let the other person feel warm and happy emotionally and be enriched and satisfied spiritually with your sincere heart, you will experience a beautiful and harmonious interpersonal relationship, and you will have many friends and finally succeed.

Lijiang morning song

-Call for respect

Liu Ling

I finally look forward to Sunday.

Early in the morning, a person went to Jinjiang Pavilion in Diecai Mountain near the Lijiang River, and the morning fog was floating in front of him, and he was very confused.

"Mo Daojun left early, and there were more early pedestrians." A young man, singing a poem, also walked lightly to Jinjiang Pavilion. "Good morning! Miss. "

I subconsciously felt a quiver in my heart. "You are early!" Then I looked at the Lijiang River, which is like a river with nine ileums. Occasionally squint at him: so handsome, so natural and unrestrained, wearing the school badge of "Guangxi Normal University". He came up to me and set up the drawing board.

There are no other tourists now, so I can't help but cast a wary eye. He waved his brush and looked at me intently. From top to bottom, I bowed my head shyly. Soon, the young man got up and walked towards me, and I shuddered. He smiled kindly: "Miss, I have offended you!" " I'm at a loss. Seeing that I was at a loss, he quickly explained: "I am a student of the Fine Arts Department of Normal University. I came out to sketch, originally wanted to draw the morning light of Lijiang River. I didn't expect your investment to make the harmony between man and nature the most beautiful scenery. It's just that I'm all thumbs and it's hard to show it best. Please advise? Quot I see. I went to the drawing board and was shocked: "Is this me? "The background is the morning light of Jinjiang Pavilion and Lijiang River. I leaned against the railing and looked at Wangjiang. Frowning, I am so worried about being indifferent ... My self-feeling is extremely out of harmony with the spirituality of the surrounding scenery, and my face is a bit more melancholy. " My brush is too clumsy to draw your face well ... "He looks sorry." No, it's not that you painted badly, it's that I ruined the scenery and harmony. ""Miss, you seem to have something on your mind? "

My mind went back to a week ago. ...

That day, I received a letter with strange handwriting.

"... I won't forget your touching eyes, the eyes that occupy my whole heart ..." "My God!" I was shocked, this is the most sensitive thing for people, and it is absolutely forbidden by the school ... I looked at the ceiling of the classroom and waited for a while. "Which handsome boy seduced our beautiful lady?" The harsh voice shook my eardrum, and before I came to my senses, the letter in my hand was taken away by the "red pepper" in my class.

For several days in a row, this matter has been raging on campus. Several good friends also alienated me. One gloomy morning, I was called to the office by the head teacher. "Isn't it too early for Hongyan to flirt at an early age?" She went straight to the point.

I am a stranger in this world.

"Here you are, Miss." The gentle tone woke me up from the "nightmare" again. The young man handed me a handkerchief and I was in tears. The boy who wrote this letter is my deskmate in junior high school. He always regarded me as his sister until he was admitted to a regional key high school, and he never forgot to go to the county to help me with my weakness-math. I know, he just told me a pure feeling in his heart, a memory in his heart, but secular prejudice twisted it strangely.

"Little girl, people should be natural and unrestrained when they are alive, and face everything calmly. Having life is the greatest happiness. " He suddenly changed his address to me. Standing in front of me is not a strange young man, but a respected brother. "Look, how beautiful the morning light of the Lijiang River is! Do you still remember Mr. Chen (Yi) saying,' I would rather be a Guilin person than a fairy'? Please smile and face life with a smile! Let's create a "Lijiang Morning Song" together. "

About an hour later, he appeared in front of me with a new painting "Lijiang Morning Song". I didn't feel my eyes lit up: the background was still Jinjiang Pavilion, and the mist had dispersed, and my vision was very broad. Lijiang River twists and turns from north to south. On the river, there are several fishing boats with sails blowing. On the east coast are green vegetable bed rice seedlings, deep blue mountain shadows in the distance and pink clouds on the horizon. My left hand leans against the railing, and my right hand naturally hangs down, leaning slightly and looking into the distance. The oncoming breeze lifted my light blue dress, and my skirt floated in the morning breeze. A beautiful face like a goose egg, eyes looking forward to flying, full of a little self-confidence, with a sweet smile on her cheeks.

I finally feel that life is so beautiful!

At parting, the young man gave me both paintings. At his suggestion, we sang "Race with the Bulls" together: "Heaven and earth are long, we are in a hurry, and the tides rise and fall ... I don't know how much sorrow there is in the world, so why don't we run with the bulls ..." The depression in our hearts completely melted into the song, scattered in the Woods and disappeared outside the clouds.

A girl's idea

-Declaration of Self-esteem

Huang Yuanyuan

Last summer vacation.

It was Danny's birthday. In order to be romantic and avant-garde, we lunatics broke into a bar in slippers.

In the bar, the lights are red, green and green; The music is deafening; Melody, hysteria ... seems to have entered a horrible world. We looked around, and there were many guests wearing suits and ties, T-shirts and jeans, heavy make-up, or topless, laughing and making waves ... When we were as frightened as a deer, we just calmed down, and suddenly, all the lights went out. Listen, there is music, no noise, only gentleness. ...

By the dim light, a dizzying scene appeared in front of us: pairs of men and women snuggled up to their chests, wrapped their waists around their necks, and raised their glasses to drink; Pairs of men and women touched their lips, their tongues bit each other, kissed madly, and made strange noises ... The 28-year-old female student at our deskmate actually rode on a man's leg and let the man's claws stick into her breast like snow ... Suddenly, we felt on pins and needles, shy and embarrassed, and really shouldn't peek into other people's privacy. Just then, several well-dressed youths came to us. Quot You young girls, make out with us ... "A group of us were scared out of our wits and ran out like ghosts. After a long run, we stopped to lean against the lamppost and gasped." Hell on earth! It took me a long time to squeeze out a few words.

Some friends will ask me out to play in the future. If you want to go to the bar, be sure to ask first. In that case, I won't go by train. Speaking of bars, I always think of the 28-year-old girl, the disgusting scene, and the scene of visiting the bookstore on a Sunday six months ago. ...

This is a small individual bookstore. There are all kinds of books in the shop. The covers of many publications are half-naked or even naked enchanting girls, posing and staring at each other. The color of its content is self-evident. However, several girls watched it with relish and were very happy. They bought it with all their money and left with a baby in their arms. I was dumbfounded … I complained about my eyes because I was afraid that those naked women on the cover would desecrate my soul. I went out in a hurry and never went to that bookstore again. The girl I met in the bar that night felt deja vu. It turned out that she was one of the girls who bought that kind of book.

In this era, I don't know whether others are evolving too fast or degenerating too fast. How difficult it is to stick to a innocence! How hard it is to strengthen a belief! How difficult it is to maintain a pure land! However, no matter how difficult it is, I will not give up easily. I will stick to my innocence, my faith and my pure land. The most important thing for girls is self-respect and self-love. Only in this way can she be confident and self-reliant.

"Clear the dark clouds in the sky, as beautiful as blue velvet." The girl's heart is a blue sky, not accepting dark clouds but scattering rosy clouds; The girl's heart is a blank sheet of paper, not stained with ink, but painted with lotus flowers; The girl's heart is a treasure piano, not playing dull sounds, but playing elegant songs; The girl's heart is a glass window, resisting the invasion of flies and smiling at the sunshine. ...

attract

-Loss of respect

Shi Liping

Xiaolan, who is eighteen years old, just graduated from a technical school and was assigned to work in a factory. Although she is an ordinary worker, she also has capital to be proud of. She is naturally beautiful, and among all the sisters, people often feel that she stands out from the crowd. At first, she didn't worship famous brands very much, but she also liked to be unconventional. An old shirt, she cut off the collar and sleeves, put on some decorative accessories such as nylon lace, ribbon or bow, and became a chic strapless dress with suspenders or vests. After wearing it, it is more lively, handsome and romantic. But later, she always wore fashionable clothes, which made everyone envy and envy. Especially in summer, thin and bright clothes show girls' unique curves in front of men.

Soon, Xiaolan was unexpectedly promoted to be the secretary of the factory director. Factory director Wang is in his forties, and he looks self-serious and leisurely everywhere. However, Xiaolan doesn't mind. At work, she still wears a high-revealing shoulder dress as thin as cicadas, with a low neckline and towering breasts.

After a while, Director Wang really couldn't resist the temptation of Xiaolan's perfect posture. As a result, when he and Xiaolan are together, he occasionally tells jokes, especially when his eyes sweep Xiaolan's body, and sometimes he touches an ornament on Xiaolan's clothes with his hand and mumbles. In this regard, Xiaolan has a sense of satisfaction. She immediately realized that something was going to happen.

One Sunday afternoon, Director Wang asked Xiaolan to work overtime in the office. It was so hot that they turned on the electric fan at full speed. The wind lifted Xiaolan's miniskirt, and she felt particularly comfortable. People say that youth is priceless, but Xiaolan sold her youthful soul for the first time at a price of 20,000 yuan. ...

Since then, Xiaolan has had more frequent and close contact with Director Wang. And factory director Wang is more obedient to her. The money in Director Wang's hand flows like running water to Xiaolan's private accounts in several banks.

Several years have passed, and there are more and more men around Xiaolan. The root cause is self-evident, which lies in Xiaolan's outstanding appearance and slim and plump figure. And that novel makeup. However, what really satisfies Xiaolan is a burly and handsome young man who does clothing business.

Since she married that young man, she has been having an affair with director Wang. Later, in order to get rid of him, she resigned from the factory and ran a clothing store with her husband. Recently, the business of clothing stores is very bad, and it is often empty. Her husband is sad all day, and Xiaolan sighs.

Xiaolan is very clever after all. She thinks that although she is a married woman, she has more mature charm. Walking in the street, the rate of men turning their heads is particularly high. Why not give full play to her advantages when she changes clothes in summer? She asked her husband to change his profession, mainly dealing in men's wear. Husband is responsible for going out to buy goods, and she is responsible for selling goods at the counter, and business is getting better and better.

In order to attract more customers, Xiaolan packed herself, such as a beautiful dress, a transparent vest, a strong and dynamic chest bra and so on. Change one set a day, sometimes even several sets a day. She also took advantage of the opportunity to choose clothes and try on clothes for the buyer, deliberately raising the jade arm or bending down, so that the man's eyes kept stretching ... Some customers touched or touched her chest intentionally or unintentionally, and she was still warm.

Although summer is the off-season of clothing sales, she is not satisfied with her vested interests. She thinks that money is not afraid of much. She dreams of becoming a millionaire's sister.

Once, Xiaolan went to a friend's house to play, and learned the news from a friend's mouth: in some areas of Guangzhou's urban-rural fringe, a long line of young women stood on both sides of the theater gate every night. They all wear clothes as thin as cicada's wings and let men's eyes "scan" their bodies. The transparency of the clothes is enough to see their body hair clearly. Around these women, there are "troupe" men desperately beating gongs and drums and screening gongs to make a publicity room before the concert. The girl at the concert showed the charm of the female body. All girls who have the courage to expose their bodies and are qualified in physical conditions can join, and the money earned every night is equivalent to one month's salary of ordinary people. Xiaolan thinks that although she is in her twenties, she is plump and charming than those girls. If you can join us, it will be a lot of money as long as your body is uncovered. You don't have to guard your own clothing store all day. She kept her promise, and in a few days, she became a member of the concert and performed naked on the stage. ...

A few days later, she was accepted by the public security bureau. Director Wang also lost his job for embezzling public funds and playing with women.

What clothes to wear and how to wear them are your own business. Don't point fingers and gossip. Moreover, the diversification and individualization of clothes is also one of the signs of human material richness. Nowadays, thinness, dew and transparency have become the pursuit of summer clothes by some contemporary women. If it is to beautify life, this pursuit is beyond reproach. But if we lose our self-esteem and self-respect to seduce others, it will only become a tragedy that harms others and harms ourselves.

[Analysis and Extension]

Everyone lives in family and society, and the harmony of affection, love, friendship and secularity not only reflects emotional intelligence; It also reflects the degree of social civilization. And these are often inseparable from "respect." The excellent works of Wang selected here explain the new concept of "respect" in family, society and even modern education from different angles, which is a talk about feudal traditional education and points out the "deficiency" of feudal traditional education. The latter leads to the neglect of the new educational concept in "stick education", which is a new educational concept with not only the function of encouragement but also the function of teaching.