Why do some people look down on ugly people?

I quite agree with this sentence. First of all, I think people's appearance can be divided into four grades:

And the so-called ugly appearance, I think it belongs to the fourth grade, which is Yang Lan's "sloppy appearance".

In my opinion, it is far from saying "look down", but I do have an "uncomfortable" feeling towards such people. In my opinion, as long as you put your hair in order and dress properly, you can avoid the "ugly" range. If you can't do this, there are only two kinds of people.

One is a person who is good at moral kidnapping. The mantra of this kind of person is: What's wrong with Lao Zi? If he can afford it, he will go In addition, such people have an idea in their minds, and it is important to look inside. You can't see my inner self, which only proves that you are superficial.

However, I want to say that the so-called mental health, generally speaking, people who can think like this just prove that their inner cultivation is not high. So people are unwilling to accept such people.

The other is a person with extreme inferiority complex. They always have an idea in their minds: anyway, even if you take care of your hair, you can't be a handsome guy in beautiful clothes, and leaving a "good" smile is not worth the candle.

But I have to say, even if it works, it looks much better than the original. And you take care of it a little bit on your original basis, which is much better than what you are now. Why not? So most people will not accept such people who can't help the wall.

I have seen a saying before that is quite reasonable: Inevitable poverty will not arouse people's disgust, but if you dress untidily, even if you dress like a famous brand, it will arouse people's strong disgust. Therefore, in a hasty situation, even famous brands can't be used as a shield, not to mention that most of us are cheap brands.

Therefore, it is not difficult to understand that people will hate ugly people, because a person will not be classified as "ugly" as long as he dresses up a little. Once classified, it means that this little trick is unwilling to do, and it is obviously a "lazy person."

People are born ugly. Who is to blame? Parents can't escape their responsibilities! But what about parents? This paradox continues, and no one has good fruit to eat! Pull it back, ugly people, no matter what expression they make, will be even uglier! This is also an indisputable fact. There is an old saying in China sages that "each other is born from the heart", but it also reveals a proposition beyond ordinary people's imagination! Yes, many, many evil scum, without exception, are the ugly Japanese devils, fascists, traitors, bandits, criminals, corrupt officials, politicians and profiteers you can recall? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Their faces are so fixed in our memory. By analogy, the despicable people in daily life, their shady stories and deeds, are also easily classified as ugly by memory, which is really "human nature" that cannot be clarified. The beauty of the soul is just our well-meaning fantasy. No one can see through another person's "mind", but human beings have evolved to this day, and there are still certain and good norms to follow. I believe that my family, my friends, my classmates and colleagues, all people who meet by chance, even passers-by, are good people with good hearts! Let's try to stay away from the ugly and ugly bad guys, shall we?

Not quite right. Beautiful appearance, so cute. But it's not unattractive to be ugly, is it? Such as beef brisket, Peisi Chen, Ge You and Pan Changjiang. Are not beautiful! But people who like and pursue can't count! The key is to see if there are any skills!

People don't look down on ugly people.

But look down on people who are ugly and accomplish nothing.

First, let's make a hypothesis.

A person is short and ugly, without money and power, with a bad personality and introversion!

what do you think?

The second person, short, fat and ugly, has no money or power, but is kind, warm-hearted and outgoing.

How to treat it?

The third, short, fat and ugly, has no money, but is an official and has a good character. Personality can also be.

The fourth person, short and ugly, rich and powerful, has a poor personality and a poor personality.

Nowadays, people make friends for a purpose. First of all, it depends on whether you are worth paying and useful to yourself. Personality is generally the first factor to test whether a person is worth paying, followed by appearance, but now more people deny a person by appearance. This is pathetic!

You can't judge a book by its cover, but the world always judges a book by its cover.

Even Cao Cao, the first of the three kingdoms to employ people, and Liu Bei, the first to know people, are also sad.

At that time, there were wizards in troubled times, one was Wolong, the other was Feng Chu, and the other was Wolong and Feng Chu. If they are all lucky, the world will be one.

On fame, cleverness and background, Mr. Pang and Mr. Zhuge of Wolong are equal, but there is an obvious difference between them, that is, Yan value.

Zhuge Liang is a famous handsome boy with good looks. The description in the history books is:

On the other hand, Pang Tong is obscene and ugly: he has bushy eyebrows and a short beard and is described as eccentric.

During the interview, the treatment of the two was completely different. Zhuge Liang was invited by Liu Guan and Zhang San, and the interviewer visited him personally. He is full of sincerity and has just been admitted to Liu Group. As an excellent student, he has been entrusted with an important task.

Pang Tong was disliked, so he was left out in the cold during the interview. First of all, he is optimistic about Jiangdong Sun Quan Group, but he never thought about Sun Quan's appearance association. Pang Tong was depressed and went to Cao Cao again, but he still didn't get along. Finally, I filled in two volunteers to take refuge in Liu Bei. Unexpectedly, Liu Bei is also a member of the slutty appearance association. See Pang Tong grow into this virtue, directly in limbo, let him do Leiyang county magistrate.

It can be seen that ugliness and love of beauty are common problems of human nature throughout the ages.

This has psychological basis: stereotype, reproductive association and halo effect.

Stereotype is people's inherent prejudice against things. This is a thinking mode and evaluation system that simplifies things. The stereotype of ugly people is often related to people's physical defects: subconsciously, good-looking people usually have high IQ, good health and good personality, while ugly, short and obscene people are born in their hearts, usually caused by internal defects.

So many people are wary and hostile to ugly people. They think that ugly people are more likely to become criminals. Even as early as childhood, children discriminated against and bullied their ugly peers in kindergarten.

Why do men like to court beautiful women? Why are online celebrities immortals? Why does the boss choose an assistant and like people with outstanding looks?

Because good-looking people are more likely to stimulate sexual association, in the final analysis, people with high face value are the mating objects of human subconscious and ideal reproductive partners. This is related to human instinct, and has nothing to do with whether or not to get married.

They pay attention to good-looking people and maintain a good communication attitude, which is actually a sexual instinct to choose a spouse.

On the contrary, people with bad looks are not ideal sexual partners, because their face value genes are defective, so due to the natural instinct of species optimization, human beings are more indifferent and hostile to this group, thus achieving reproductive isolation.

Halo effect also needs halo effect, that is, people like to enlarge the local characteristics of people according to their initial impressions, so as to get a whole concept. Good-looking people are treated with courtesy in job hunting, courtship and socialization because of their high face value and high overall evaluation. It's a counterattack to attack outstanding people by eating melons. On the contrary, ugly people are partially magnified because of their ugliness, and their lives are limited, difficult and unpopular.

In the final analysis, this is the limitation of human cognitive psychology and social discrimination caused by inferiority. However, this discrimination conforms to the principle of survival of the fittest in nature. Therefore, in modern society, there are more and more immortal faces, because the ugly ones are all old and dead.

A person with a bright soul will never be looked down upon.

A person whose heart is full of sunshine and goodwill, who exudes warm, upright and positive energy, will not reduce his personality charm because of his ugly appearance.

A person brings kindness and warmth like spring breeze to people around him; When others are in trouble, he will lend a helping hand. No matter in life or at work, his colleagues will try their best to help and will not read other people's jokes. Such a person has nothing to do with beauty and ugliness, but brings practical and peace of mind to people around him, and people will respect him.

Many friends have read Notre Dame de Paris. Are they impressed by the ugly bell ringer quasimodo?

Quasimodo was abandoned by his parents at the gate of Notre Dame. He is a deformed child with "geometric face, tetrahedral nose, horseshoe mouth, jagged teeth, one eye, deafness, hunchback, ugly and honest voice". His defects do not affect the likes of people with conscience and sense of justice, because of his kindness, his justice ... his self-sacrifice.

Appearance is the first impression, but what is more important than appearance is the soul. For example, Mr. Ma of a treasure, some people think what he looks like, but who doesn't admire his wisdom and courage?

Another example is Deng Wendi, whose appearance may not conform to our popular aesthetics, or can only be described as plain, but her experience is legendary. After reading it, I will know that she deserves the title of big winner in life!

Man, no matter how good a skin is, is just a face. What's the use if the lining is embroidered pillow, straw bag or just vase?

Therefore, to be a man, the most important thing is wisdom, kindness, kindness, judging people by their appearances, not by their appearances; Units that judge people by their appearances may not go; Because their starting point has deviated from the normal track, even if they get along, they are chicken ribs and have no future.

Now this era is the best, and there are many opportunities. As long as you are talented, you won't worry about the space for display. It is really "the sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and the birds fly." People are not afraid of ugliness, but they are afraid of no talent! People are not afraid of being poor, but they are afraid of being poor and lazy.

Everyone has a love of beauty, and the recognized beauty of appearance has quantitative standards, but from the aesthetic point of view, the standards are different. External beauty is innate, but the inner beauty of the soul needs to be cultivated. How to cultivate ugliness to make up for congenital deficiency? Looking down on ugly people is generally caused by insufficient moral cultivation.

It is a bit inappropriate to express this view in an overly certain tone. Do many people look down on ugly people? I don't know how ugly you are, but is it as ugly as quasimodo in Notre Dame?

Then my personal opinion is that even if he is so ugly, I won't look down on him. The people who are looked down upon are those who are uneducated, sloppy and full of servility. I don't think what they look like will cause others to look down upon them!

Appearance is just a person's skin. Even so, the outstanding people in this society will have advantages in employment and mate selection.

However, I believe that gold will shine wherever it goes, which requires us to treat it with our heart and observe it with our heart.

Would you like it if it was beautiful after plastic surgery?

China society will judge people by their appearances. And people in our new era should correct their thinking. Those who are not very good-looking are mostly talented or have something extraordinary. It takes time to correct their existing ideas and face them correctly.

Another possibility is that ugly people don't pay attention to their own image and don't care about their own image, which indirectly means disrespect for others, who are far away from themselves. There are no ugly people, only lazy people. Good-looking people are clean and image-oriented. Can others like being sloppy all day?

Everyone wants to be perfect. Ugliness is not their fault. When dealing with people, the heart is the most important thing. Just like we talk, we don't care what we look like, as long as we can talk. People get along with each other with our hearts, not our appearance.