My wife was playing mahjong outside at night, and my husband ran into her! What was the result?

As the saying goes, small gambling is good for one's feelings, and big gambling is harmful to one's health. However, playing mahjong frequently is not only harmful to one's health, but also harmful to one's feelings, making one's life restless and unable to continue normally. A husband can't stand his wife's state because she always goes out to play mahjong alone until late at night, regardless of family and children. So he went to find his wife with his child in his arms at four o'clock in the morning, only to find that her gambling debt was paid off in an unbearable way, and finally the two broke up in discord.

First, the husband's repeated forbearance to his wife did not make her reflect on her behavior, but intensified gambling. After the couple got married, the wife often played mahjong, but after having children, the wife did not pay more attention to taking care of the children and family, and still played mahjong until late at night, even not going home at night.

It is conceivable that normal families can't stand this pace of life. At first, the husband always thought that his wife was still young. When the wife is a little more mature, she may realize that there is something wrong with her behavior, and she will change her mind and live a good life with herself. Who knows, I can't wait for her to return to her family.

Second, the husband came home with his child in his arms in the middle of the night, and it was unbearable for this man as a husband to meet his wife's physical repayment of gambling debts. If we just play mahjong for entertainment, I believe that the husband will not interfere with his wife. Now the wife's playing mahjong has reached the nature of gambling, which also affects the normal family life.

Facing the unattended children at home, the husband took the children to find his wife to go home. Who knows that he happened to meet his wife who owed someone else a gambling debt and had no money to pay it back, so he paid off the debt with his own body. This way is unacceptable to the husband, so the relationship between the two immediately tore their faces.

Third, the wife who was knocked down was still unwilling to repent, and neither of them would give in. The husband wants to live a good life with his wife, but he can't keep his wife through his own efforts, and he encounters embarrassing scenes, so he decides to divorce his wife. The husband wants custody of the children because he thinks his wife is too unreliable. When he plays mahjong, he ignores his family and children. If he lets his children follow his wife, he will certainly suffer.

Therefore, the husband has sufficient reasons to keep the child with him, but the wife demands that if she gives up the custody of the child, she will get a divorce fee of100000 yuan. As a husband, she can't accept her request and wants to take legal procedures to safeguard her legitimate rights and interests.

Fourth, it is predestined friends to be husband and wife. It's not easy to walk together. It is best to cherish each other, but if you meet someone who is not suitable, stop loss in time. You can't let an unsuitable person delay the happiness of your life. It is said that it is a kind of fate that husband and wife can come together, so two people have to tolerate each other in order to survive. Faced with this situation, the husband felt that there was no need to maintain this marriage, so he insisted on divorce again and again and raised his own children.

In fact, I think as a man, this husband has endured enough. He put up with it when his wife didn't come home after playing mahjong. He always gambles, regardless of his children, and is sure to lose some money. The husband also forbeared until he knew that his wife could not bear to repay the gambling debt with her own body. It can be said that the husband gave his wife many opportunities to change her mind, but she didn't take it well.

This wife not only does not want to repent, but also claims that she is already like this, morally corrupt, as long as she divorces herself. Look at this broken mentality, if the child really follows this as a mother, it is also irresponsible for the child's life. Even if my husband really gave his wife a divorce fee of100000, I believe he will still be thrown on the mahjong table again by his gambling wife. Therefore, I absolutely support that the husband should stick to his bottom line and never give in to the other side, but should strive for the right to raise children, and should not give his wife divorce expenses, because the wife has not brought any benefits to the family and failed to fulfill her responsibilities as a mother. Is there any reason to ask for the child's right to support?

The wife asks herself again, do you care about the custody of the children or how much benefit you can get from competing with your husband for custody, and how much divorce expenses you can get? I hope my husband can make up his mind this time and keep the last position.