The speaker is not interested in listening, and jokes are sometimes a knife that hurts people. What jokes have you been hurt by?

Whether jokes hurt you or not is quite subjective, because it comes from personal feelings, but for children who grew up in traditional families, they received countless jokes and felt a lot of harm, but the geniuses in memory never cared.

First, your mother doesn't want you.

Your mother didn't want you? I heard this joke from my father's mouth, even from my aunt's mouth. They seem happy to see my injured face, hear my crying, coax me back, and enjoy the boring process. But when I was a child, I hated hearing this kind of joke, because it destroyed my inner sense of security and made me suffer from losing my mother's sense of security. But I also vaguely felt that it was a lie, but I was not confident enough and needed a great sense of security. I hope this kind of joke will not appear on the next generation of children, and I hope they can have a better sense of security.

Second, you found it in the trash can.

where i was from? This question has been bothering me since I was a child, and I will naturally understand it as I grow older, but when I consulted this question as a child, I would be rewarded with a sentence:? Did you pick it up from the trash can? This kind of joke, psychologically speaking, also undermines the child's sense of security. If you pick it up from the trash can, if you feel unhappy, can you throw it back into the trash can? Children's psychological security is always destroyed, and this feeling is really unbearable. I hope modern parents can learn how to give their children proper advice and tell them where I come from.

Third, we don't want you.

You are so disobedient that we don't want you? This sentence is often used by parents to threaten disobedient children, but it is actually a joke. However, for children, they like to take their parents' words seriously, so this sentence is also threatening children. If you are not the child I want, then I don't want you and threaten the child's survival with obedience. This is a terrible thing, for example, kidnapping a child has been obedient, and I really don't understand why the child is disobedient.