What to do if your classmates hate you

It can be seen that the relationship with your classmates is not very harmonious, which makes you very distressed. I can totally understand how you feel. You can try to find out what behaviors or aspects do your classmates hate about you? Are there some misunderstandings? If it is not a misunderstanding, you can also put yourself in the perspective of your classmates and think about it. If you were them, would you hate your related behaviors?

There is a saying: Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. It means that if you don't like it yourself, don't do it to others. I listened to a class from a psychology master. If you understand his four sentences, this problem should no longer exist. It goes like this: Treat yourself as others, and treat others as yourself. Treat yourself as yourself and treat others as others. Doesn’t it sound awkward to say? It’s very Zen-like. If you think about it carefully, you will understand that this sentence summarizes all the philosophy of life. When your behavior makes others uncomfortable, you should treat yourself as someone else and put yourself in their shoes. When you have adjusted yourself and there is nothing wrong with you, but others still hate you, treat yourself as yourself and treat others as others.

Anyway, you are not RMB, so it is impossible for everyone to like you. Besides, even if you are RMB, no matter how beautiful the design is, it will not be as popular as 100 yuan. The important thing is to discover your own value, affirm yourself, and recognize yourself. Don't be depressed because of others' denial, nor be elated because of others' approval. Peace of mind, the truest self. Accept your shortcomings, pursue growth, and slowly improve yourself.

If there are really many classmates who hate you, then you should use your time of speculation and depression on learning and self-growth. When one day, you become very good, like a piece of gold When you are shining, you will naturally be very attractive.