Why did Jia Baoyu become a monk?

Rome was not built in a day. Jia Baoyu, who only wanted to drill into his daughter's pile, was able to let go of his wealth and gentleness, family and marriage, and an empty net. It is not a whim, but a decision made under the intersection and collision of many factors. These reasons are as follows:

First, from nature: when Jia Baoyu was born, he was different from others. Not only did he come to this world with jade in his mouth, which was very surprising, but even his later growth process was full of "surprises" everywhere.

Second, the family overturned, knowing that things are impermanent: Jia Fu, who has been in power for a hundred years, will eventually be copied. This is definitely a storm for Jia Fu's middleman. No matter in wealth or power, Jia Jia suffered great trauma, plus a group of family men were found guilty, accountable, exiled and detained. ...

Third, Xue Baochai's meanness: Jia Baoyu knew how to take care of his daughter. Even though he has experienced great family changes, even though many things in this world run counter to his expectations, he still has a good wife and mother, right? Why doesn't Jia Baoyu love Xue Baochai as a wife? Unfortunately, it is because of Xue Baochai that he has strengthened his determination to become a monk.