Children know the answer in class and dare not raise their hands to answer. They are not confident. How can they be confident?

1, teach children to respect others and some basic manners.

Of course, don't be too demanding of children to study like court officials. Show children how to shake hands with adults when introducing each other. Explain some rules, such as why you can't put your hands in your mouth and why you can't run around while eating. Tell children how to respect others, and others will respect themselves, which will inject a lot of confidence into children.

2. Let children understand that sometimes they need respect.

Many people, especially adults, don't respect children. Sadly, some adults think children can't think or are inferior. If your child knows that he should be respected and will not tolerate those who don't respect him, he will be full of confidence in himself and show it.

3. Tell children to ask questions when necessary.

Even doctors or teachers sometimes make mistakes, and they are not always right. If the child knows this fact, then the child will not be indifferent and will not complain when the homework is not done well. He will take the initiative to ask the teacher why he only got C instead of A, and how he can get A. 。

4. Show children how to laugh and how to entertain themselves.

Not only because laughter is good for the soul, but also self-entertainment can make him feel comfortable. If you can do it, children will learn and imitate. This can teach children to have confidence in themselves and help alleviate some problems, such as when some bullies want to bully children.

5. Support children.

If the child is right, stand firmly on his side. If your child tells you that the school has formulated some dress codes that he or she thinks are wrong, you should discuss with your child and understand the reasons. If you think your child's reasons are sufficient, then you should discuss with your child's school or write to the school. Doing so will cultivate children's communication skills, analytical skills and how to conduct diplomatic discussions, which will instill confidence in children.

6. Don't underestimate children's complaints.

Discuss with children and chat with them from their opposite angles, so that children can understand that they should look at problems from different sides. This is a key factor in building self-confidence.