Luo Yijun: Children like to be alone. Will it be difficult to work as a team with others in the future?

Luo Yijun, an extroverted mother, observed her introverted children and found that the external environment brought various pressures to the children and made them "change". Luo Yijun will ask "introverted adults" in various fields how to adapt to society while maintaining their own characteristics. Zhan, also known as 686, likes to be an observer in a group. How does he view the contradiction between being an introvert and being a leader, and learn the ability of continuous communication and coordination under the concept of adhering to himself?

Did you feel like an introvert since you were a child? Why do you think that?

686: When I was a child, there were often group activities at school. When everyone is frolicking, I will watch everyone in the corner, or read books by myself, especially in fun parties and birthday parties. I like being a corner observer. I feel that I am an introvert since I was a child, and I like my own activities, such as reading books. I think I get more fun from it than fooling around with everyone.

Yijun: I like being alone and being an observer in a corner. What was the interpersonal relationship with my classmates at that time?

686: I still remember that there used to be a "speaking class". At that time, the teacher asked everyone to tell jokes, puzzles and stories in turn. Many students couldn't figure out what to say on the stage, or nobody laughed at their jokes, but when I went up to tell them, the students responded well, which gave me a chance to express myself. In fact, the content of oral class is all from books. When I see funny things, I will write them down and prepare more materials to help my classmates, which not only builds popularity but also has a sense of accomplishment, so I am often elected as a class cadre.

Yi-jun: It sounds like "reading" is very helpful to build the popularity of oral English classes. Then why is watching movies a "one-person" activity?

686: I tried to watch movies with my friends, but after watching them, everyone will have other activities, such as eating together, taking the bus or talking about other things, instead of talking about the "movie" I just watched, so I still like to watch movies alone, so I can calm down and think about the inspiration that movies have brought me.

Yijun: Many parents worry that their children are too "lonely" and easy to live in their own world. You have been there before. What do you think of this?

Even though I am alone, I think reading and movies make my world bigger and bigger, just like a line in a movie directed by Yang Dechang said, "Movies will triple people's lives. 」