I wanted to take my parents to the city, but my wife refused: I married the house just to live with my parents-in-law.

The atmosphere at home has been a bit awkward recently. Actually, it's mainly me, and my wife has no influence. I just do what I should do every day. I just don't understand. We're married. Shouldn't everything be for two people? But my wife doesn't think so. She refused my request for my parents to come and live together, and told me that she had the final say in this matter, regardless of reason or mutual affection. Figure network.

My wife and I are high school classmates. Because we were not in the same class, I didn't know her well at first. I noticed her when I was a sophomore, and the school held activities. Her classmate has something temporary. She sang a song on the stage. I didn't expect her petite figure, explosive voice and nice person. To put it simply, I fell in love with her at first sight. But at that time, I was sure that my studies were the most important, and I didn't know her well, so I naturally didn't confess.

However, she deliberately approached me without showing any disgust. We just didn't break this paper. The relationship was determined after we were admitted to the university, although we were not in the same school, compared with long-distance love. We are in the same city and really happy. She usually dresses up, simple and simple, and I didn't know her family was very good until she fell in love. My parents do business and have a big villa in their hometown.

There are two nannies at home, and this economic condition is high for a poor family from my rural area. But my wife doesn't mind this. The rich family didn't make her snobbish, but she was very caring. In love, she understands my poor family and always tries to bear most of the expenses. And gave me a lot of help without hurting my self-esteem.

After graduating from college, we went back to our hometown together, and I took her to see her parents at the first time. My parents will not agree to see such a beautiful daughter-in-law I brought back, and the family is good and happy. So after the work was settled, we began to talk about marriage. In fact, my father-in-law and his wife didn't agree to our marriage at first. I felt it the first time I went to her house. Although her parents didn't say anything and their attitude was good, I could still feel it.

But then my wife persuaded them and finally agreed that we should get married anyway. When you get married, you must mention the bride price, dowry, wedding room and wedding. My parents mean that a two-story building was built next to the old house a few years ago, and they intend to make a wedding room for their son. Then almost all the savings in the family were spent, and the bride price might not be much, so the wedding could only be simple.

If nothing else, I actually don't think it's appropriate about the house. It is not that the house is bad, but that we all work in the city. If we live in the village, we not only waste time, but also have unnecessary travel expenses every day. But the house in the city, which the family can't afford, is very helpless. Just when I was worried, my wife sighed and said, "Don't be disappointed. Leave it to me. Who made me fall in love with a poor boy? "

Not long after, my wife told me that my parents had prepared a wedding room for us, and the bride price was only 20 thousand. As for the wedding, the woman will also do it. I really feel lucky to meet such a sensible and reasonable wife. Later, I took my parents to see our wedding room. Although it is not a villa, it has four bedrooms and two halls, and the area is large enough, and it is also a school district, and the price is not cheap. When my mother sees such a spacious house, it will be her son's home in the future. Her eyes were red and she couldn't speak.

Later, we got married and had a wedding. After marriage, life was very comfortable, because there was no pressure such as mortgage. Close to my wife's house, we often go back for dinner and take a bunch of fruit snacks home after eating. On weekends, we go shopping and watch movies. We live without pressure and burden, and our relationship is as good as when we are in love. When my wife was pregnant, my parents first proposed to live with us in this city.

My mother said that she could take care of my wife, and I thought it was a good idea. When my parents come, I can take care of my pregnant daughter-in-law and enjoy a family reunion. Why not? But as soon as I mentioned it, my wife refused, saying that my mother-in-law was old and should not work so hard. Said her family helped her find an aunt. My wife looked serious and I didn't say anything more. After all, she is pregnant. I found an excuse and persuaded my parents to turn over a new leaf.

During my wife's pregnancy, my mother-in-law often came over and told me something about her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law from time to time. I know all the reasons. I have received a higher education. How could I not know that conflicts easily arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because of different concepts and living habits? But my parents are easy to get along with and like my wife. As long as the wife can accommodate a little, the problem is not big. But I didn't say these words, after all, we should first consider the mood of pregnant women.

My mother proposed to come to the city for the second time. In the hospital, my wife just gave birth to a big fat boy. But when I came home with my wife and children, I found that my wife had been looking for a month and had promised to help the children for half a year. My parents stayed at home for a few days, but my wife ignored them at all, and finally they went back. I am very unhappy, but my wife said that it is enough to have a new moon at home, and I don't need my mother-in-law. She also considered the feelings of our little family and told me not to walk into a dead end.

It is also my incompetence. After what my wife said, I can only shut up. My mother called me and said that everyone in the village laughed at her, so I could only comfort her with words. But apart from this, after the birth of the child, because of the new moon and aunt, it has little impact on our lives, and we are still busy and happy every day. Time soon arrived when the child was 6 months old, and the new moon left, and the nanny at home was going back to her husband's house.

At this time, my mother heard about it and offered to come and help us with the children again. Tell her to have the baby, and we can work with peace of mind. But my wife still disagreed, saying that she had already discussed with her parents and asked my mother-in-law to take care of the children. Anyway, we are very close and can go to see the children at any time. We can still do whatever we want. I was so angry that I thought my wife had decided without consulting me.

But my wife said that she was never ready to live under the same roof as her in-laws. She stressed many times that I didn't take it to heart. I remember my mother crying to me on the phone, saying that neighbors always asked her why she didn't go to the city to enjoy life with her son, and she was embarrassed to answer. My anger suddenly came up, and I said I must bring my parents to live together. But my wife smiled and said, "You are not qualified. My parents bought me a house before marriage in order not to live with my in-laws. Whose house has the final say, if you dare to take it, move out with your parents. "

See I didn't make any noise, she told me a lot of truth, can be said to be sensible and sensible. These words really sound reasonable, and they are really beneficial to our family and our feelings. But I always feel uncomfortable. Why am I married and I still have no decision on this house? I don't want to do anything. I just want my parents to live in the city and enjoy their old age. Is there something wrong? Anyway, now that I'm competing with myself, I feel uncomfortable. You said, my wife is too impersonal, or I ask too much.