Why do my children always bump when they go to grandma’s house?

I understand this problem deeply!

Most of the grandparents here don’t look at their nephews because “the nephew’s dog will run away after eating it!”

There is also an interesting story circulating: There was an old man who led his grandson and The nephew went to the beach to swim, the old man went swimming, and the two children were playing on the beach. Suddenly the old man stabbed himself violently, and the grandson cried: "Grandpa! Grandpa!" The nephew said: "Your grandpa is dead, but my grandpa is still at home!" ”

In fact, this is a short story and a joke. But it also reflects the relationship between the old man and his grandson but not his nephew. Nowadays, most of them are only children, and some families are the same. They are not close to their nephews and prefer their own grandchildren! My little grandson told me many times since he was a child that his grandfather favored his cousin. Last year, he told me that the amount of New Year's money given by his grandfather was more than his cousin's! My wife told the children that this is not a problem, no one prefers their own grandchildren!

My grandchildren are my grandparents’ darlings, and I have been married to them for generations! It hurts a hundred times more than hurting your own child.

When my daughter-in-law gave birth to her grandson, I was taking care of him during the confinement period. The baby was severely deficient in calcium and would not sleep. I held him for several hours a day. My mother-in-law often took her grandson to play at home, and told my daughter-in-law and I: "You two must take good care of the child (pointing to the child's head), the little boy's head is too ugly!" I took good care of him during the confinement period. , the child's head is not tilted to one side, and he is lying very straight! Very nice!

After the confinement period, they were going to live with their grandma for a month. After two months of waiting for the daughter-in-law to go to work, the child came home. When I saw it, the child’s head was tilted so badly that it became Gourd scoop! We, the old couple, thought: What should we do? Thanks to the early return, the baby is only two months old. My wife and I took good care of him and straightened the baby's head with great effort!

My grandma has a little cousin, and she takes care of her own grandson. You don’t regard my grandson as your own grandson!

Grandma doesn’t dare to blink when she looks at her grandson, fearing that something might happen to her child, so she often knocks him into pieces when he goes to grandma’s house!

The elderly must concentrate on watching their children. They must not let the children play by themselves. They must ensure that the children cannot leave their sight!

My grandson is two years old. He bumped his knee once and scratched his skin, but there was no bleeding. In the evening, my son and his wife came back, and I took the initiative and said, "My child knocked a little bit today." My son said, "There are no children who don't fall!" My daughter-in-law said, "Can you try to throw it and see if it hurts?" Obviously she was dissatisfied with me. ah!

Since then, I have been extra careful with my children and have not let anything happen to them again!

But the child often goes to his grandparents’ house with his parents on Sundays, and he breaks into pieces several times! This is not grandma’s fault, it’s my son’s carelessness in looking after children!

I am Yu Wenping, an old man who loves to tell the truth! I worry so much about my children. If you don’t raise your children, you don’t know your parents’ heart! This statement is absolutely true!

If the baby has just learned to walk, it is recommended to put anti-collision strips on the corners. Everyone has different methods of raising children. For example, my child knocked the most when he was placed in my hand when he was young...even my nephew I was thrown by me when I was a child, but do you think I don’t love my children? I'm just not that careful, and children grow up bumping into each other. As long as they don't hit their eyes or hit their heads too seriously, don't worry about it. You must be complaining about this matter when you ask, so I suggest you don't express it, or Please pay more attention to your children

My nephews are getting more and more pregnant as they are fed. As the saying goes in the countryside, a nephew will eventually recognize his family if he feeds an unfamiliar dog. But don’t worry too much. Stumbles often happen. Grandma and grandpa love children and control them more loosely than their own children. So when this happens, you must have a good attitude and don’t cause conflicts or say hurtful words. Any conflict will be unpleasant. No. Harmony, displeasure. Bring your own if possible! So as not to get angry.

Why do children always knock when they go to grandma’s house?

When my children were young, they would often bump into each other when they went back to their grandma’s house. There are two reasons:

First, the house where the child usually lives is relatively large, and he is used to running and jumping freely, whether in the living room or the bedroom.

Second, my grandma’s house belongs to an old community. The structure of the house in the 1980s was unreasonable, the rooms were small, and the placement and design of the furniture were also unreasonable.

In this way, children change the environment and still follow their own playing habits. Coupled with improper parental care, bumps and bumps often occur.

I think this is wrong. If a child gets bumped into a child, it is basically the first guardian's responsibility. Don't blame others. If you can't take good care of your own child, why should you blame others? You may bump into grandma's house, you may bump into grandma's house, and you will still bump into your own home. This is a matter of probability and is not limited to location. Nowadays, how many grandmas love their grandchildren more than their own daughters. In today's society, most of them are only children. Women, so grandma loves her grandson as much as grandma, and there are many families where grandma takes care of her. So I think the only one to blame for this topic is the first guardian. People other than the first guardian have their duty and affection. Apart from those who intentionally hurt, everyone else should be grateful!

It is inevitable for children to stumble, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be at grandma’s house as you said. Children are naturally fond of playing and can't stop playing for a moment, especially boys. Girls are even better. No matter where my son goes to play, we just watch him blindly. Sometimes he will get bruises and there is nothing we can do about it, he is a little kid! There is no one who just sits there. If you don't let him run or play, he won't be able to bear it, unless there is something wrong with him. It is the nature of children to be lively and active. We should not look at children from an adult's perspective. Think about it, wasn't it the same when we were children? The trip to grandma's house you mentioned may be the place where he likes to play the most and where he can relax. You should be happy that there is no big problem. Thank you

The children are relatively familiar with their own home environment, but they are relatively unfamiliar when they arrive at grandma's house. Maybe the children are naughty, and grandma is embarrassed to say it. It is important for parents to take good care of their own children, and don't blame others.

It also has a lot to do with personality, and whoever takes care of more children will be more careful.

My baby has always been taken care of by my grandparents, who take good care of him in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation. He has deep feelings and takes good care of every detail.

Grandma, on the other hand, has a Madaha personality. It is inevitable that she is not as attentive as grandparents in taking care of her, but the elders all have the same love for their children. There is no need to worry about this kind of problem. Some people are just not good at taking care of children. Just careless.

First, I don’t know about others. When my children and I go to my grandma’s house, I always want to chat more with my mother and talk more. The attention cannot be devoted to the child wholeheartedly, so sometimes the child will knock.

Second, I am an outsider in my grandma’s house, and I only see the children, so it’s not a big problem.