Some people say, "In today's society, class reunion is a joke." what do you think?

Nowadays, the reunion of classmates really feels alienated and boring. Failure to do well is a joke, especially for older students. The more they have nothing to say, the more they will become a place to show off their wealth.

Gay men learn to show off how much money they have earned, how many houses and cars they have bought, how many businesses they have done, and look like successful people and social elites; The female students dressed up beautifully, gathered together to show off what high-end cosmetics they used, what brand-name clothes they wore, what brand-name bags they carried, and how rich their husbands were.

In short, the reunion I haven't seen for years has become a place for me to show off my wealth. It seems that my classmates are all successful people after graduation, and they are all labeled as rich people. But when it comes to paying for the real thing, these people shrink back, which also makes people witness the ugliness of human nature.

I once experienced a high school reunion, which was the most wonderful one I have ever experienced, and I have never attended such a reunion since then.

I remember a few years ago, when I went back for the Spring Festival, I suddenly got a phone call from my middle school classmates, saying that my old classmates who I hadn't seen for years wanted to get together, and the head teacher of our middle school also participated.

Because I left my hometown when I graduated from college, except for a few good contacts between my classmates, I hardly met anyone else.

In our class, except for some people talking in the group at the beginning, it was lively for a few days and quiet for the rest of the time. Suddenly someone suggested a party, and there was nothing to do at home during the New Year, so I agreed to attend.

Unexpectedly, just entering the hotel door, there was a table at the door. Like the conference report, everyone who comes in has to sign in and pay for the meal. I remember that it was 800 yuan a person at that time. Maybe many students didn't expect to pay for the reunion, which was a bit embarrassing.

Because it is said that many male students in the class are doing well, these rich children are clamoring for a party during the Chinese New Year. Don't they show off? And let the girls pay the bill?

But now that I'm here, to be honest, no one will care about that few hundred dollars now, just pay it.

Although the dinner is AA, it still can't stop the male students from showing off their wealth. One of the boys has been doing medicine business in Beijing. It is said that he has tens of millions of assets and real estate in Beijing, Shanghai and Hefei. A few years ago, there were seven or eight license plates in Beijing alone. Later, after the purchase restriction, these license plates were very valuable.

Besides, he has a factory in his hometown. Recently, it is said that it has invested in commercial real estate, which should belong to the big boss level. It is said that he initiated the party. It was agreed that he would pay the bill, but the monitor and head teacher said that everyone should participate, which also reflected the cohesion and sense of honor of the class.

Many female students whisper, do you want a sense of honor, do you want us to pay? Why doesn't the head teacher pay?

It was a grand banquet for the students who were doing well. Only a few students have money, and most of them are ordinary working people like us. When they talk loudly, it is easier for us to get along and talk about their living conditions.

Some students haven't seen each other for a long time, and there is nothing to talk about. The scene is very embarrassing.

Later, after dinner, many boys drank too much and clamored to go to KTV, so I left home as an excuse.

I haven't been to a similar party since then. According to the students who participated in the whole process later, several former class cadres sponsored by them suggested that the rest of the money should be bought by the class teacher and not returned. The monitor and several former class cadres later said that those who stayed spent hundreds of dollars to buy gifts for teachers, which also made many students complain.

This kind of party is really great. If you want to please the teacher, you can pay for it yourself. Why kidnap other students? Why don't these so-called rich people come forward to pay the bill at this time?

After that party, I concluded that the purpose of the party itself was not simple.

First of all, class reunion has become a high-profile place for people to show off their wealth.

Whether it is really rich or fake, it is rich anyway.

Everyone wants to show himself as a rich man, a successful career, a happy family and a successful person in front of his classmates. Every cowhide is a winner in life. If you don't know everything, you will think that you are attending a grand banquet.

In the face of these true and false giants, as a working class, you often feel ashamed. At the party, I was also unknown, kept a low profile, rarely accosted others, just chatted with a few familiar classmates, and some students even couldn't remember their names clearly. The scene is very embarrassing.

And the students who are highly regarded as successful people, it is Kan Kan who talks about his success, his wealth, and his unparalleled assets, which has attracted a group of students from crying and only envy, which has undoubtedly become his destination.

These successful people with successful careers were not the best in their classes at the beginning, and some of them were even problem students. They didn't go to college, and finally went into business, but they made small achievements.

And those former seniors, although not as rich as they are, didn't buy their accounts very much, and eventually the reunion became a gathering of small groups.

Second, the old classmates I haven't seen for years still keep the state of birds of a feather flock together.

You can also feel the existence of this small group at the party.

People who used to be more speculative in school will still form a small group to get together. They see almost everything, and others can't blend in.

For example, it was originally a study group; Before going to school and after school, they are neighbors who go in and out together; Others were excellent in all aspects of their studies in the class at that time, which won the teachers' love and formed a small group around them. In short, at the dinner party, everyone is also distinct.

People who don't get along may not say a word at the whole party, and those who get along have already met at the next party.

Third, when I was a classmate, it was the peak of puberty hormones.

Meeting your first lover or secret admirer at the party may remind you of the burning years.

It is inevitable that students have first love or unrequited love. At that time, because it happened on the eve of the college entrance examination, the school was strictly in charge, and the ambiguous love and ambiguous impulse once left good memories. After graduation, this ambiguity has remained in my heart. Even if married, married, the beauty of the first love remains in my heart, and as time goes by, it is more and more radiant.

It coincides with the reunion of classmates, which can relieve the pain of lovesickness and have a justified date.

So when people reach middle age, more and more old classmates get together with impure purposes. After experiencing a complicated society, they have long since lost their shyness and timidity.

After the party, it is natural for men and women to date and relive their old dreams, so that middle-aged men and women with dull marriages can get passionate again, even in front of classmates, which is not surprising for some students who know the reasons.

So there is a saying that sums it up very well, "When we meet again, we can be separated. I wish you happiness! " Many families broke up because of class reunion. It can be said that some classmates get together, which makes some former relatives become more mellow after a long period of fermentation, and generate shows irresistible passion.

The gathering of middle-aged people is definitely a love scene to relive old dreams, which makes many people want to stop. Because there are many reunions between lovers at the party.

Fourth, the reunion also witnessed beautiful people and beautiful things, and finally made the reunion a joke.

Therefore, class reunion, no matter which way it is taken, has become a joke.

I attended the class reunion and met great people and great things.

Everyone took a lot of photos at the party that day. The monitor said that these photos would eventually be printed out and sent to everyone, and the expenses would be paid out of the money collected from 800 yuan. If it is not enough, the class cadres will make up for it.

Because I left early, I never received any photos from my classmates. Later, I called the classmate who was in charge of custody and money collection to ask about it. She even told me that they didn't have a courier at home and couldn't hack me to send photos. I was so angry that I almost vomited blood.

If you say there is no express delivery in remote mountainous areas, I believe you work in the Capital Prison Administration, but you say there is no express delivery there? Who believes it? I hung up at that time and never contacted this person again. I don't care about pictures of some irrelevant people.

Later, I accidentally brought this matter up as a joke in the group. I'm just angry that this man is so wonderful. I didn't expect that no one in the group quietly responded. After that, I quit my classmates and never contacted these wonderful things again.

I just happened to think of this great classmate, but I still feel very strange. Is your home outside the universe? No express? So, don't attend this kind of party, or it will become a joke.