Is the child's comparison heart a joke or normal?

In the afternoon, my daughter is playing at the door with her children. Just kidding, I suddenly heard my daughter say, "That's my mother, I have a mother? You don't have a mother? " My mother is with me, but your mother is not.

The little boy was very anxious and couldn't wait to protest loudly: "I have a mother, and I also have my grandfather, father and sister."

The daughter scrambled to answer, "I have my father and grandmother, too. I also have toys and dinosaurs, which scared you to death."

I felt funny and helpless while listening. It's interesting to see two children hugging, competing and comparing.

I had a similar conversation when I was a child, and I still remember it deeply. One day, I stayed at my uncle's house. At night, everyone slept in a room and chatted in bed.

Suddenly my cousin said, "There are three brothers and sisters in our family, and there are only two brothers and sisters in your family."

Not convinced, I replied, "There are two big tables in my house and only one in yours. We have more stools than you. " Say that finish a little proud.

Then all the cousins joined in. Everyone is thinking hard, what is there in our family that your family doesn't have? From stools, wardrobes, buckets, rice cookers, bowls for eating, beds for sleeping, clothes and even stone mills in grinding bean curd, they are all compared. Compare everything you can think of. The other party also needs to judge whether you are right or wrong to prevent cheating.

That night, we were in high spirits and not sleepy at all. The conversation lasted until late at night, and finally we were really sleepy before going to bed.

Now that I think about it carefully, I still feel unfinished, which is ironic. People's heart of comparison has sprouted since childhood. There is nothing to do.

It's nothing special in itself, but it's good to know something clearly, so don't worry about it often. Reduce expectations appropriately, understand your weaknesses, and learn to treat life with a peaceful attitude.

It is normal for everyone to keep up with the joneses. Only comparison can make progress. But excessive comparison is a morbid psychology, which makes you feel inferior or inflated.

You don't have to compare yourself with others all the time, especially your own shortcomings with others' advantages. Don't be greedy for others' advantages. How can anyone say that I am doing my duty? Face yourself frankly, and you will be alert and clear-eyed. Listen to your heart, live a chic life, but that's all.