I am very distressed. My girlfriend often thinks that I earn too little money and says that I can't afford to buy a house without working hard. What should I do?

It is unrealistic to solve the house problem at once according to your conditions. I can only enlighten you. I hope you can relax mentally.

If you love her, she really loves you and deserves your love: people who really love each other are outspoken and don't care about each other's self-esteem. She loves you without other people's material conditions. Maybe she has a strong self-esteem and a lot of pressure. If you invite a colleague to a party and she doesn't have her own house, she will complain to you as a way to vent her pressure. At this time, if you can stand it, just smile and don't take it to heart. She loves you and won't leave you. Why do you care? Besides, from your own standpoint, you think it's right to teach hard, because your school is not as good as hers. Subconsciously, you think that a good school is your goal, but she still doesn't have a good school house. Naturally, I feel that a good school is useless, no matter how much you don't want it, but she has experienced it and makes sense. You can consider which one is more profitable. After all, you have the same goal. Your willingness to admit your shortcomings shows that you are a responsible man, but being responsible doesn't mean making a lot of money. You don't have to be stressed. You live in different environments and have different views, so naturally you have different pursuits for life. Not that you're useless. If you feel stressed, you can talk to her, let her understand your difficulties and pay attention to the way you speak. You can't feel that failing her will hurt yourself, and it's not good to get sick without venting your pressure. Besides, I think she is the best. If you have always been arrogant in this respect and pursued a high standard of life, then you are more inclined to have fun. There will still be contradictions in your future. For example, if you have children, you may complain that children eat less than others, and you may also complain. I mean, if your values are really different, you can consider breaking up. In reality, there are quite a few families who quarrel like this. There is a deep fatigue in your words, and it is also very hard. Have a good talk with her. If she changes and is willing to fight together, you will be fine. If you go on like this, you will wonder if this is what you want and live under the pressure she gives you all your life.