Baiqueyuan folk-custom

Toona sinensis soaks rice seeds and soaks tree cotton.

Long summer didn't appear, so he cut the wheat and fed it to the old cow.

People miss a moment and miss a year.

In summer, when the south wind blows, ten rushes wither and nine rushes wither.

Before and after Qingming, order melons and grow beans.

Great summer heat and slight summer heat. Sweet potatoes are a mess.

Seven without eight, eight dozen. (of a plow). A dark cloud is at the zenith, and the biggest storm is not surprised. (used in summer)

There must be rain on the top of the mountain under the cloud, and it is good to dry clothes on the high mountain above the cloud.

Dark clouds see the sun and it rains in the middle of the night.

There is less rain in the west wind after a long drought, and less sunny in the east wind after a long rain.

A warm spring rain, a cold autumn rain, and ten autumn rains for cotton.

The bug blows in my face, and it won't go far.

Clouds drive away clouds, and it will clear up. Clouds cover clouds, and it will clear up.

The sun is dizzy in the middle of the night, the rain is dizzy, and the moon is dizzy at noon. (1), Cheshui folk song, five sentences in general, high pitch, slow rhyme, long tone and bright tone; Strong local flavor and full of beauty;

A small waterwheel goes down the river bend, pedaling the wheel arm, which leaves don't pull the water, which keel is improper, and which young people don't like to play.

A small waterwheel went down the river and babbled all the way to Luge. How many ponds and weirs did it dry, how many drums and gongs were broken, and how many little brothers were exhausted.

These Cheshui songs are a kind of opera singing: (female) The pen is seven inches long. Write a letter to my Lang, ask my parents first, and then ask me when Lang will bring the slaves into the bridal chamber. (Male) Write a letter to his wife with a small pen of seven inches and seven inches, first to pay homage to his parents-in-law, and then to his wife. How can I marry you without money? (Male) The newly-married brother went to pick tea, and told his wife that you should stay at home, sit at the door for nothing, comb your hair less and leave a smiling face to go home. Little brother, I haven't gone out yet. I have nothing to do but sit at the door, smiling and leaving you the vinegar.

(2) Country minor: I am right, who is right, and what is the flowering point? Brother, gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-"!

You're right, I'm right, the blooming light of the rush. Girl, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

I give two, who is against two, then what flowers and moss? Brother, gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-",gnome male-"!

You give two, I give two, rape blossoms and moss grows. Hey, hey, hey, sister. Rape flowers grow moss.

(3) Folk songs:

The swan goose turns to the green bamboo, and the bones are quiet.

Branches and branches are not finished, and leaves love each other.

Beautiful images often move, and fragrant souls swim with green.

The wind is particularly strong and my mood is heavy.

I was homesick in the oasis last night, and it was wet.

(4), classic nursery rhymes:

One: pull mill, make a big oil steamed stuffed bun, eat half and leave half. Where is the other half? Where is the cat? Climb the tree! Trees? Is it a flood? The dragon drank! Longli? Oh, my god God? And then bang!

Second: pull water, plant seedlings, and cook soup with glutinous rice.

Third: The moon has gone, so have I. I carry the basket for the moon. Basket basket, picking cotton, cotton shell, pricking feet, ouch, little brother. (1) is the custom of Baique Garden to welcome the New Year. Next year is generally operated by family elders, and it will be carried out between the first day of the first month and the early morning. Each family is different, but the procedure for the next year is roughly the same. There is a big or small square table in front of the door. There is a piece of bacon, a piece of bacon, three plates of fruit or snacks, three bowls of Ciba and three cups of tea on the table. Of course, these things are not fixed, but they must be the best at home. After setting, first burn paper to the sky at the table, then turn around and burn three incense burners on the altar, and then bow down to Tianhe and nave who set off fireworks and firecrackers respectively. Finally, the second year's sacrifice was served, and the second year was over.

(2) Xiangtangzi, that is, couplets dedicated to ancestors and gods, is basically available in every household. There is a banner in the middle of the nave, which reads "The Ancestor Zhao Mu is in the Divine Position", and there is a line of fine print on the left and right, which reads "Chef Dong" on the left and "God of Wealth" on the right. Its meaning is as follows: "Ancestor Zhao Mu was seated in the order of generations, with Zhao on the left and Mu on the right; The father is Zhao and the son is Mu. "Chef Dong" refers to the kitchen god, that is, the kitchen god. "Fu Lu God of Wealth" refers to the three gods of Fu, Lu and Cai, also known as Samsung. There is also a narrow couplet on both sides of the width. The content of couplets is different, but there are many good sentences, mostly "a blessing from heaven, a swallow's wings hanging at home;" Baoding is fragrant and colorful, the silver platform reports good news, and candles give birth to flowers; Happiness is like flowing water in the East China Sea, and longevity is better than Nanshan. Sacrificing ancestors is a long-standing filial piety of the Chinese nation, and it can also be said to be the inheritance and development of the cause of ancestors; Sacrificing the "four gods" is the yearning and expectation for a better life in the future.

(3), lanterns, from the thirteenth day of the first month to the second day of February. It's not easy to carry a lamp, it needs a lot of preparation. Tie a colorful dry boat with bamboo, paper, cloth, etc. Tie another flower basket, also called flower picking, which is a basket or flower basket for people to pick; Play a dozen lanterns. Prepare two sets of gongs and drums, big gongs, cymbals, welding gongs and drums. There are four pieces each. The most important thing is to organize a team of people: find seven or eight beautiful young and middle-aged women who can sing well in minor, dress up as boatswain, flower girl who carries a flower basket, and the maid who accompanies the wine; We also need to find a group of young men to beat gongs and drums, guard floats, maintain order, serve tea and water, and deal with some things. Dress up as a man and a woman, in short, be able to be humorous; There are a dozen children aged 14 or 15 who play lanterns. Tie lanterns to a bamboo pole more than a foot long, hold them high and divide them into two teams, one with the boat and the other with the flowers. To be on the safe side, it is usually necessary to have a group of helpful people to compare the effects of folk songs, so as to avoid a cold silence or embarrassing situation. Men, women and children can use it, and there can be many people. Of course, the more the better. Everything is ready. On the evening of the 13th day of the first month, we will have a rehearsal. The local name is "Dengkao" to prepare for the official Lantern Festival on the fifteenth night of the first month.

Usually at night, lantern boats and flower pickers are divided into two groups, one village at a time. A door should sing two or three tunes and three or five minor tunes. If the host also likes singing, singing a song or joking, then he will sing a lot. If the host is hospitable or has a good time, the host will set off a small firecracker to keep you when you leave. At this time, you have to make a new sound, sing a song, or keep it again and again, so make a sound and sing again and again. Colorful lanterns highlight the word "noisy", indicating talking, singing, dialogue, slapstick and teasing; There are various forms, and they have been innovating and developing.

Folk songs can be divided into "door tune" and "minor", which are collectively called hometown minor. "Door tune" is casually made up by people who play with lanterns. They usually sing praises, auspicious words or jokes. Lanterns arrive at the door of the host's house, just like when two people meet, they should greet each other. The so-called "door tune" is a greeting to the host. Whether the lanterns are noisy or not is also related to whether the doors are funny or not.

Auspicious words: red light goes out, red light goes in, red light goes to your door; Men, women and children have enjoyed peace since the red light. More than a dozen gongs and drums are loud and jubilant, and everyone loves to play. The person who played lanterns last year was lost, and it is shameful to play lanterns this year. Men, women and children have enjoyed peace since the red light. As soon as you get to the door, put your eyes on it and stick red and green pairs on both sides; On the left is Fu Lushou, and on the right is the Eight Immortals of Life. Fu Lushou, the Eight Immortals, is prosperous for thousands of years. The keynote of the wedding ceremony: move your feet at the door and step on the old dragon's nest; Step on the dragon to give birth to your son, and step on the dragon's tail to produce more champions. The door tone suitable for children to work in other places: hold your head high at the door, be happy and ask for money; When will civil servants take office? How often do military attaché s go home? Door tune suitable for poor hosts: the lyrics express true feelings, but at the same time they contain a kind of sympathy and leave expectations, which is also the true side of the door tune. More than a dozen gongs and drums panic, and the adobe wall of the straw gate house; After the autumn harvest this year, we will tear down huts and build buildings. Funny door voice: (male) Don't run as soon as you get to the door. Where can I find embroidered shoes? Embroidered shoes can be made by slaves who run away, and slaves who are made are not as good as slaves who buy them. The first month of the "Ten Gifts" was full of fun, and any young person who didn't like beauty gave A Lang a watch. February is full of flowers and green vegetables, which young and uncivilized, send a towel to my sister. When the peach blossoms opened in March, I moved the peach branches, looking forward to Lang's arrival and giving him big leather shoes. April 8, April, scorching sun, I gave my sister an umbrella. May is Duanyang, and white zongzi is smeared with sugar, so give it to Lang. In the dog days of June, I always sweat, so I gave my sister a goose feather fan. There is Tanabata in July, and the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl live together, giving A Lang a wonderful time. August is the Mid-Autumn Festival. Who is young and not romantic, give her sister a red hijab. Miss Xiang Xiang in the first month of the "Flower Name" fragment! In February, bluegrass blooms. Peach blossoms are as red as fire in March, little sister! April pear blossom competition powder wall. Gardenia blossoms beautifully in May, little sister! Flatter to see begonia in June. Lotus bears lotus seeds in July, little sister! I smell osmanthus fragrance again in August. September chrysanthemum wine, little sister! There are no flowers and no frost in October. Snow lotus in winter is nowhere to be found, little sister! Plum blossoms bring snow fragrance in December. "Ten Embroideries" is an embroidery of Guangdong City, where there is a camp and a fragment of Cao Cao's three armies. Second, embroidered cross street, where business is good, embroidered Liu Bei sells straw sandals. Embroider a boat, the boat is in the middle of the water, and embroider a squire to hang a fishing rod. Four embroidered bags, clear in Bao Zheng, sunny in the day and cloudy in the night. Fragment of "Green Leaves Drifting in the Water": Green leaves drift in the water. Last year, I missed you until now. I thought you were going to dry up. I miss you not eating during the day, I miss you not sleeping at night, and I will see it when I fall asleep. I love your pretty face, and I love your red cheeks. My eyebrows are an arch bridge. Third, I love your little white hand. Fourth, I love your garlic waist, just like a beautiful woman. Love your little feet, like red peppers in the vegetable garden, which nobody looks at. You don't want to stretch out your hand to pull you, just put it down and laugh, just like a murder knife. You were ashamed to pull you twice, but you died of a red tide tonight. People in Baique Garden are hospitable and polite, which are mainly divided into guest ceremony and communication ceremony. Courtesy is divided into hospitality and hospitality. Take hospitality as an example. Although guests are divided into distinguished guests, rare guests and frequent guests according to their identity and communication time, they are all warmly welcomed and treated with courtesy. There is a custom of not receiving guests every other month. If there is anything festive, you must inform the guests in advance, but you can't invite them every other month. Reception can be divided into face-to-face, agency and Cambodia. The host will pick up the guests himself. When inviting guests on their behalf, the guests invited on their behalf must inform the host of the intention of treating guests and the reasons why they cannot meet face to face. There are two kinds of invitations in Cambodia: one in Cambodia and the other in Cambodia. After entering the door, guests should say some modest words such as greetings, send warm water to wash their faces and hands, and then make tea and offer cigarettes. Send water to wash your hands twice before meals, and then send water to wash your hands after meals. Pay more attention to serving tea. Every guest has a special teacup. The first time you pour water, it is called washing tea, and the second time you can drink water. The first time, each cup is filled with seven cents, the second time and the third time, the cups are full. When the new guests arrive, they must pour out the old tea and brew it again. They are not allowed to entertain guests with the tea left in the pot, otherwise it is impolite. When the guests have drunk enough, they will pour out the tea feet to signal that they will not drink, and the host will be free.

The seating ceremony at the banquet was very particular. Generally speaking, the chairman of the guest is the first on both sides, the seat on the right is the guest seat, and the seat on the left is the guest seat. The seating order of the guest seats is arranged according to the number of generations, and the arrangement order cannot be reversed. If you are waiting for a new son-in-law, the front of the guest table is the first, and the newcomer must sit down. It is said that the upper and lower seats are determined by the living room door and the seam of the table, and it is also said that "the seam of the table is facing the stomach, so it must be the next seat". After taking a seat, the food came. The first bowl is not served, but some chopped green onion is added to the boiling water, commonly known as chopsticks washing and spoon water. When serving, the table should stand out. Under normal circumstances, chopsticks must be moved before serving every dish. When attending a funeral banquet, don't fold the dishes in the bowl when removing the table (meaning don't fall on the younger generation). Banquet standards vary, but there are generally three circles (sweet potato circle, fish circle and meat circle). In villages such as mountainous areas in the south of the town, close relatives are the first wedding, and friends are the most important funerals, so the farthest is the nearest. Give each other a little humility when you come to the table, and then sit in the arranged seats. Don't be offside, or it will make you laugh.

Communicative etiquette is not only applicable to relatives and friends, but also to social interaction between superiors and subordinates and colleagues. Relatives and friends generally have more contact at major festivals, weddings and funerals. Spring Festival is a must-see festival in a year, so you must send gifts to congratulate each other. For ordinary relatives, not paying New Year greetings during the Spring Festival means that you don't want to leave him (unless you say hello to him in advance). Nephews, sons-in-law and nephews usually pay New Year greetings to their elders before the eighth day of the first month. It is impolite to go too late. Some families ask their nephews not to go to their uncle's house on the third day of the year. The most common and important relatives are father, mother and wife, followed by aunt, sister and godmother. If the other party's manners are not good, it will cause estrangement, but it will lead to breakup.