Eccentric mother-in-law only serves kannika nimtragol, but takes care of me with nanny fee. Can I charge if my mother-in-law is ill?

There was a saying in the Book of Rites in our country: "Father and son believe that brothers are harmonious, husband and wife are harmonious, and the family is fat."

This means: parents and children have deep feelings, brothers and sisters live in harmony, and husband and wife love each other. Only in this way can a family be more prosperous and happier.

In the minds of China people, family harmony is very important. Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "cultivate one's morality, govern the country and level the world". "Qi Jia" is of great significance in the hearts of China people.

Therefore, judging a person often depends not only on personal ability, but also on family background. Especially in marriage and love.

Many people must look at each other's family environment when choosing a marriage partner. Many people like to find a marriage partner with simple family relationship, good family style and only child. Because this can ensure the safe and smooth marriage life of two people after marriage.

In contrast, many people choose to avoid single-parent families, families with divorced parents, complicated family relationships and many brothers and sisters. Because this kind of family can easily lead to contradictions in married couples' lives.

All along, I think marriage is a complicated course that needs everyone to study for a lifetime. Many times, marriage equals life. Want a happy marriage, in other words, pursue the happiness of life.

Then if you want to live a happy life, you need people to work hard for it. If you want a happy marriage, you need a husband and wife to manage it carefully.

Many times, the happiness of marriage is not in the hands of husband and wife, but related to many people, especially the families where both husband and wife come from. The influence of family background on marriage sometimes even exceeds that of husband and wife.

Common mother-in-law relationship, sister-in-law relationship, etc. are all examples of family background affecting marriage. Among them, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most common and headache.

Speaking of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I believe many women will feel headache and fear. Many marriages have broken down because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and more marriages are faltering because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, the whole family will feel pain. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't like each other, and men are caught in the middle. Marriage is affected by this.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more subtle and complicated. Whether it is good or bad depends largely on the mother-in-law. Contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are mostly caused by them.

The attitude of mother-in-law to daughter-in-law also determines the happiness of husband and wife's marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also relative. As the saying goes, you raise me young and I raise you old. You are good to me, and I can be good to you.

Therefore, I think that a mother-in-law should be kind to her daughter-in-law for her future pension. After all, everyone will get old one day and sometimes feel unwell. When he was old and needed someone to take care of him, he found that he had offended the people who took care of him when he was young. What a painful thing it is.

The reason why I wrote this article is because of the contribution of reader Hongmei. Her marriage story is more wonderful than most people because she has an unreasonable mother-in-law.

Hongmei said frankly: I have never done anything wrong to my mother-in-law. Now this situation can be said to be caused by her own fault. Justice lies in people's hearts, and I believe I have done nothing wrong.

Hongmei's contribution this time is also for everyone to comment on whether her practice is right or not.

Hongmei is 45 years old. This year marks the 20th anniversary of her marriage with her husband. In the past 20 years, Hongmei's married life is generally ok, but because of the tension between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, her life in these years has been somewhat wronged.

The contradiction between Hongmei and her mother-in-law is because her mother-in-law is too eccentric. Her husband Wang Yu has a younger brother, and her mother has always been partial to this younger son, which is unfair to Yu Wang. Yu Wang has been treated unfairly by his mother since he was a child, and he has never been reconciled.

When Hongmei married Wang Yu, she saw her mother-in-law's eccentricity. Because Hongmei and Yu Wang are in free love and have a good relationship, Hongmei only asked Yu Wang to buy a house, and gave nothing as a bride price.

However, buying a house was opposed by her mother-in-law, who wanted to leave the money to her youngest son as a wife, so she didn't want to take money to buy a house for Yu Wang.

Because of this, Yu Wang and his mother had a big fight. Finally, fortunately, his father persuaded two people to buy the house. Hongmei also knows her mother-in-law's eccentricity.

Because this happened before they got married, Yu Wang and Hongmei were very angry and didn't contact their families. Mother-in-law is also very car-scrapping, and directly said: In the future, the eldest son will not be needed, and the younger son will be enough.

Hearing this, Yu Wang was even sadder. Hongmei also thinks that her mother-in-law is too much. She is also a son. Why do you like one of them?

One year after marriage, Hongmei became pregnant. Because my family is far away, I want my mother-in-law to take care of me. Yu Wang also wants to take this opportunity to ease relations. After all, it's mother and son, so stiff that outsiders will laugh.

Mother-in-law also agreed and really took care of Hongmei. Hongmei and Yu Wang are very grateful. They are delicious and delicious every day. Even if her mother-in-law is not picky about Hongmei, Hongmei secretly endures it. Because she doesn't want to ruin her husband and mother's chances of reconciliation because of herself.

During pregnancy, Hongmei suffered a lot of grievances, but she also endured it silently. In fact, she is very disgusted with her mother-in-law, because this time she gets along with her mother-in-law, she is even more annoyed with her mother-in-law.

Time flies. Hongmei gave birth to a son. After her mother-in-law sat in confinement, Hongmei and Yu Wang were very grateful to her. But the mother-in-law's next move made the two extremely angry.

My mother-in-law said, "I have served you for eight months, and you give me 5 thousand every month, a total of 40 thousand. This is the nanny fee."

This words say, hongmei and Yu Wang are mad. Yu Wang, in particular, without further ado, took out forty thousand dollars and gave it to his mother. Tell her to go at once.

Before leaving, Hongmei also said to her mother-in-law: "This money is the cost for you to take care of me. Don't come to us in the future. "

The mother-in-law didn't even look at her and replied, "Don't worry, I have a little son to raise."

A year later, Hongmei's brother-in-law got married. They were married by the son, and their mother-in-law was so happy that she was going crazy. Anxious to wait on kannika nimtragol Hongmei met her brother-in-law's daughter-in-law, which is not a good quarrel. She often speaks in a strange way. I have a bad attitude towards my mother-in-law.

After serving kannika nimtragol, her mother-in-law was rushed back to her hometown by kannika nimtragol. After that, Hongmei and Yu Wang don't know what happened. Two people focus on their own lives.

In this way, after more than ten years, her mother-in-law was eccentric, making Yu Wang and Hongmei unhappy every time. But neither of them could do anything about her.

Just the year before last, my mother-in-law suddenly fell ill and was admitted to the hospital. No one around to take care of her. Only Yu Wang's father was there to take care of him, but he was too old and in poor health.

The mother-in-law wanted her little son to take care of herself, but she didn't expect her little son to be stopped by his wife after taking care of himself for a few days. Kannika nimtragol doesn't want to control her mother-in-law.

As we all know, brother-in-law is afraid of his wife. When she stepped in to stop him, he was afraid to take care of his mother. At this time, Hongmei's mother-in-law is the most uncomfortable.

I have raised my son all my life and neglected myself because I was afraid of my wife. I'm in a hurry to wait on my little wife, but I don't want to take care of myself. What have you been doing for so many years?

It was also at this time that she remembered her eldest son's family, so she called Yu Wang and told him to take care of himself.

Yu Wang loves his mother even more. After all, she is a mother and son, so he went to take care of her. But I am too busy at work on weekdays and can only take care of it at night. So her mother-in-law wanted Hongmei to take care of herself.

Hongmei went to the hospital to visit her mother-in-law, leaving a sentence directly: "You took care of me when I was pregnant, and finally I asked for the nanny fee. Now you want me to handle it? No, I don't want your nanny fee, I can't take care of you! "

Say that finish this sentence, hongmei felt that the grievances of these years seemed to be alleviated.

In the following days, she really didn't take care of her mother-in-law, and Yu Wang was always there. She didn't stop her husband, because she knew that after all, it was mother and son, and she couldn't stop it herself.

Mother-in-law always said that she was cruel and unfilial, but Hongmei felt that she had done the right thing.

Because of eccentricity, I finally regretted it, and Hongmei's mother-in-law deserved it. A reasonable mother-in-law, even if she is partial to a child, will leave room for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because this is not only related to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but also shows how you are.

If a person can't do something well, it's hard to do other things well. This person's personality will not be very good. Whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious is directly related to the happiness of husband and wife's marriage. So as a mother, I suggest you be careful.