Have you ever encountered marriage trouble? How to deal with it?

Title: The embarrassment and response to wedding troubles

In traditional Chinese weddings, there is a custom called "wedding troubles". This is a wedding activity mainly based on banter and jokes, aiming to increase the fun and lively atmosphere of the wedding. However, with the progress of society and the change of people's ideas, some excessively vulgar and excessive marriage troubles have attracted widespread attention and discussion in society. I also encountered such a situation when I attended a friend's wedding. Let me share my experience and how to deal with it.

It was a sunny day, and I was invited to attend my friend’s wedding. The wedding scene was very lively, with constant laughter and laughter. However, when the bride and groom arrived, a sudden wedding event made me feel very embarrassed. Some relatives and friends began to play pranks on the bride and groom, such as painting the groom's face into a big flower face, hiding the bride's shoes, etc. While these behaviors may seem harmless, in my opinion they go beyond normal marital drama and go a little too far.

Faced with this situation, I first chose to stay calm. I know that a wedding is a big day for the bride and groom, and they hope to receive blessings and support from their relatives and friends on this special day. Therefore, I cannot let my own embarrassment and discomfort affect their good mood. At the same time, I also understand that wedding banter is a traditional custom, and its purpose is to enhance the relationship between relatives and friends, rather than making people feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.

Secondly, I try to understand this kind of marriage trouble. I know that these relatives and friends have no ill intentions, they just want to express their blessings and joy to the bride and groom in this way. However, I also believe that this kind of excessive marriage fuss is not in line with the values ??of modern society, and it may bring unnecessary trouble and pressure to the bride and groom.

In the end, I chose to actively participate and do my part to alleviate this embarrassing atmosphere. When someone tries to pull a prank on me, I accept it with a smile and then get back at them. I've found that not only does this save myself from embarrassment, but it also makes other people feel relaxed and entertained.

In general, I think wedding banter is an interesting traditional custom that can increase the fun and lively atmosphere of the wedding. However, we should also note that excessive wedding fuss may bring unnecessary trouble and stress to the bride and groom. Therefore, while respecting tradition, we should also pay attention to personal feelings and conduct wedding activities appropriately.

In future weddings, if I encounter a similar situation again, I will try to stay calm and rational and do my part to maintain the harmonious atmosphere of the wedding. At the same time, I will also try to guide others to understand and accept moderate wedding behavior, so that weddings can truly become an occasion full of joy and blessings.

Marriage banquet is a traditional custom, which reflects people's blessings and expectations for marriage. However, as society progresses and people's ideas change, we should also adjust and change this custom in a timely manner to make it more in line with the values ??and needs of modern society. Only in this way can wedding banter truly become a fun and meaningful wedding activity, rather than a prank that makes people feel embarrassed and uncomfortable.