How to face the bitterness and joy of life?

In the face of the joys and sorrows of life, probably the highest level is to laugh it off.

I remember that in the classical Chinese I learned before, the most impressive sentence was "Don't be happy for things, don't be sad for yourself", and this sentence also applies here. Some people say that the road you have traveled can be called an experience, whether it is sweet or bitter. Because you can only grow up after experience, it is these hardships and joys that are intertwined to write your wonderful life.

For a person, if he has only experienced the joy of life and never tasted the bitterness of life, then it is easy for him not to cherish everything he has and not to know how to be content. If you only taste the bitterness of life, but never taste the joy of it, then such a life will easily become gloomy and make people lose confidence.

Bitterness and pleasure in life are always relative. As we often say, "Happiness depends on misfortune", some people can always have fun in suffering, while others will be extremely sad. This is probably because everyone's experience has created everyone's different mood.

For the bitterness and joy of life, we should look down and then look down. Don't be happy for things or sad for yourself, be quiet inside, watch the flowers bloom in front of the court and look at the clouds in the sky from a distance. In this way, we can not be tired of trivial things in life, not be blinded by the status quo, know where our road leads, and not lose our original heart.

In the face of the bitterness and joy in life, it is probably the most important to keep a good mood to face it. When encountering something particularly exciting, we should not slack off or be proud, and when encountering a low point in life, we should not sell ourselves short and add to our sadness. What we have to do is to adjust our mentality, whether it is bitter or happy, we should regard them as an experience of life, which is a valuable memory wealth.