My parents think that if I don't get married at the age of 30, I will be laughed at and humiliated. What should I do?

Influenced by some old traditional ideas, some parents think that children will be laughed at if they don't get married when they are older. In their hearts, they feel that this is a very shameful thing. Because of the change of young people's concept of marriage and love, the age of marriage has been postponed, which makes parents very anxious. My parents think that if I don't get married at the age of 30, I will be laughed at and humiliated. What should I do?

What you have to do is to change your parents' ideas first. You can talk it over with your parents. Tell them that the concept of marriage and love among young people has changed, and there are many people who are not married at the age of 30. They focus their work on starting a business. They hope to get married after their career is successful, so that they can have better development, because entering the marriage hall too early may be bound by family life and hinder themselves.

You should let your parents know that if you are not married at the age of 30, it is impossible for others to joke now, and it is not a shameful thing. Let them eliminate this psychological burden from their hearts, and let parents understand that whether to get married or not is the choice of young people themselves, and has nothing to do with other people's views. You should psychologically convince your own parents to change their old ideas, so that he won't think it a shame that you don't get married!

There are differences between parents and children because of their different views on marriage. In this case, the best way is to communicate more and avoid direct conflict. It is necessary to thoroughly communicate the ideas of the two generations and make each other's ideas consistent, so that there will not be too much contradiction. Your parents know what you think and will not force you because you are not married. Parents' wishes are good, but you have different views. Say something and it will be solved!