Sincerity is the biggest routine.

Recently, there was a fire variety show "Single is Hell", and a group of single men and women started their love-seeking journey on the island.

Among the successful couples holding hands, Shi Xun and Yan Zhi are rare.

It is not easy for them to hold hands, and their pursuit depends entirely on teacher training. In the early stage, the woman did not choose him, and even deliberately kept her distance from him. Crucially, after several cruel rejections, Shi Xun still firmly chose Yan Zhi. Finally, Yan Zhi's sincerity was finally moved, and they both returned home.

This is probably the charm of sincerity!

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There is no doubt that complex and hypocritical routines are often boring. And sincerity can harvest sincere feelings, and sincerity is the biggest routine.

Imagine if Shi Xun gave up somewhere, then this relationship would not succeed!

In fact, people nowadays love to play some routines in love, as if they don't play some inferior routines, but they just don't understand the Bible of love. It is difficult to make the marriage and love market a mess.

In fact, more people are calling for more sincerity and less routines. Shi Xun, on the other hand, treated Ji-yeon sincerely and finally gained love.

And people who are cynical and exhaust their routines in love often end up putting themselves in. There are all kinds of plots in the emotional drama. Maybe you will say, this is just a TV series. How can this happen in real life? But don't forget, creation comes from reality.

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Why do many people use routines in love?

In fact, in the final analysis, it is because of inferiority. With the present conditions, I feel that I can't cope with each other, so I need routines and I need to market myself.

So through some means, I hooked up with some people I thought I couldn't reach, but because of false ingredients, I would be very tired when I was together. After all, I need to be a false self at any time and put on a dark mask. But when someone sees through, the game is over.

In fact, playing routines is just a partial trick used by some people who have no strength. The so-called killers who pick up girls and handsome guys are actually carrying an empty soul.

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Speaking of which, I think of a friend Tucki.

Tucki talked about a girlfriend before, and it is said that the girl is still a beauty queen.

What is puzzling is that Tucki is plain in appearance and plain in family background. How did he attract the beauty queen? Don't ask. Ayong doesn't know either.

Sure enough, they broke up not long after they were together. On a friendly wine-spitting table, Tucki looked a little drunk and told the secret of catching up with the beauty queen.

It turns out that Tucki has a crush on the beauty queen for a long time, but the beauty queen pursuers are still very disappointing. Even if Tucki is put in front, the beauty queen may not look at him.

So Tucki didn't know where he learned some routines, and rented a car and borrowed money every day to be caring and attentive to the school flower. Over time, the beauty queen is really tempted.

Later, after being together, the campus beauty found that his car was rented and owed a lot of foreign debts outside, swearing: "hypocrisy"! Throw another big mouth bag and leave without looking back.

Indeed! You have your routine, I have my pursuit, and finally, just stay out of it.

In fact, true long-lasting love needs equal strength. The people you can find are people with similar conditions to you, or people of the same kind as you.

If you want to do better, you can only improve your own value, whether it is emotional value, survival value or biological value. Of course, as I said before, improving your personality charm is a very stable force.

Just like the diplomacy between the two countries, the words on the table are only auxiliary, and the most important thing is the strength of the two countries. Strength is the most important, and routines are only auxiliary. Pursuing routines blindly is putting the cart before the horse.

Tucki's failure is a lesson.

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I love you in my relationship, and you love me. All right, let's be together. In fact, there is no need for routines. The results of a lot of practice show that sincere expression of feelings and sex is better than routines.

Sincerity is the most powerful routine. When you show your true self from the beginning, others will see you without exaggeration, understand your strengths and weaknesses, and naturally get together.

You don't have to be routine, but you can be together if you know each other's situation, and you will walk for a long time.

However, the other party who has done the routine will gradually discover your true colors over time and truly understand your character and shortcomings, and he will still leave you.

When you keep telling the truth, it is the most touching and easy to poke others' hearts.

Then people who have a little affection for you will also fall because of these real and powerful, gentle rather than romantic words.

The person who gets it in this way is the one who recognizes your true self, and you will also express your happiness.

Nature can go on for a long time. Playing routines, being suspicious, and playing tricks to get a relationship will naturally not last long.

Love is a precious spiritual wealth and a sweet experience.

Using routines will taste bad, make you miserable, make you hate, and put shackles on the invisible shield of finding true love.

Again: love, please be more sincere and less routine.