Two-part allegorical saying: What does the old lady eat?

The old lady eats persimmons-she only chooses soft ones.

The original meaning is soft persimmon, which means that this person is easy to bully or in a weak position. It's usually the strong side here or it's more practical to say people behind their backs.

For example:

1. "A soft persimmon like you deserves to be bullied when you meet anyone."

2. "You see that person has no skills at all, so you can find a soft persimmon."