People who look down on you often have four manifestations.

0 1 together, he either flatters you or perfunctory you. When interacting with people, you often meet people who are very enthusiastic. He can always praise you, turn your shortcomings into strengths, and make up some messy achievements and impose them on you. His words make you feel tall and really great. In fact, what he said is obviously hypocritical, and no one will believe it when he says it. Some people, when interacting with you, don't care about your feelings at all, and don't want to listen to you. He always ignores what you say to him. He often says things like "hmm, ah, ok, oh" and doesn't look you in the eye when he speaks. Even when you are talking, he slowly leaves and ignores you. People who look down on you are very special when they are in contact with you. Flattering you is actually to make you happy, to make you happy. When he perfunctory you, he is very unfriendly. It doesn't matter whether you are in front of him or not. People who respect you will listen to you carefully and answer your questions seriously. He is sincere when chatting with you, and will not exaggerate your achievements or underestimate your potential.

Behind your back, he always gossips and laughs at you. Some people, it is "face to face, behind a set". In front of you, he pretends to be friendly, but behind your back, he makes irresponsible remarks, taking your shortcomings and past events as his talk. He will even slander you just to see you get angry. At work yesterday, my colleague Lao Wu said to me, "You know, Lao Liu thinks you are a night owl." I said, "What's the matter? Do I work overtime and stay up all night? " Lao Wu said, "That's not what I meant. The' night owl' that Lao Liu said is that he doesn't sleep at night, and he specializes in making dynamics in his circle of friends and eating with his boss. " It suddenly dawned on me that what Lao Liu said out of thin air was nothing more than denigrating me. He simply looks down on me. People who look down on you won't say anything in front of you, or even have any language communication with each other, but they will try their best to find your shortcomings and seize your handle. If he doesn't catch you, he will gossip and damage your image. If you are angered by his words, you are trapped by him.

When there is a dispute of interest, he always gives you a tit for tat and never budges. People who look down on you will never "yield to you". He can't wait to keep your interests for himself, and he doesn't want you to get any benefits. For example, if you are the owner of a supermarket, the business in the store is very good. He hopes that your business will get worse and worse. When he sees a customer coming to your store, he will stop others, say something ugly and drive the customer away. People who look down on you may be jealous of you. When you get better and better, they will get in the way and try to drag you down. For example, if you are a teacher at school, and you get the opportunity to choose a professional title through your own efforts, he will find all kinds of mistakes, collect so-called evidence and send it to the principal. I hope you can admire you from the bottom of my heart through that better person. In case of interest disputes, he will yield to you and show great generosity. If others find fault everywhere, you should be wary of him, keep a distance from him and avoid his sharp edges. As the saying goes, "the east gate is closed and the west gate is open." Don't argue with people who look down on you. Take the initiative to give way and fight for each other, it doesn't matter. Your generosity will make him feel ashamed and make his life wider and wider.

You never help you when you are in trouble, and you even throw a person when he is down. People are poor, and relatives and friends look down on you. But, you know,