What should I do if Miao sent beautiful women to confess to me?

The person you like likes you;

The most disgusting thing in the world:

She knows you like her and tells you that she is going on a blind date.

Can you still be friends after a failed confession? It may be an embarrassing problem that many people encounter. In fact, most of them are out of fantasy. If the other person has explicitly rejected you, why do you want to be friends? As for the last person who wants to be friends, he should be considered a big fool. I have to say that his heart is really broad.

If rejected by the girl you like, it is estimated that 90% of the boys don't want to be friends. They want girlfriends. Since they don't want to, what's the point of being friends and ruining their future? Find some excitement from time to time? In this case, being friends is already an unequal friendship. You will always remember that throbbing feeling in your heart, except that you hid the most primitive love so deeply that her smile appeared in front of your eyes and immediately jumped out and said, "You still like her."

If you can't get a perfect love, don't worry about the rest. You'd better forget about the Jianghu. And those girls who suggest just being friends, they are not as beautiful as you think. This kind of behavior itself is harmful, which is more harmful than decisive refusal. No one wants to hurt someone they care about. This is a fact.

Some girls want to satisfy their own desires and enjoy the feeling of being pursued, or it may be for money or spare tires; I don't like it or hate it. One more friend is not too much, and one less friend is not too much. We get along well.

Some girls are afraid of hurting boys' self-esteem. In order to reduce their guilt, they feel that others are still quite nice and can send a "good friend card". There are also some girls who think that you can't get along well and will agree. I don't know if you are sincere. It takes some time to study and test before making a decision.

These are the reasons why girls are willing to be friends. Of course, I don't think any other boys will accept it except the last one. No matter what the reason, the damage will exist. Finally, it depends on who stays the longest, pokes the deepest and cries the worst. ......

Now put yourself in someone else's shoes. If you were a girl, what reason would you choose to be friends with him? Think about it, it is also good, at least you can try to figure out their psychology.

The more you like someone, the less you can make friends. Once it fails, the gap is the gap. Even if the woman really wants to be friends, she often can't do it herself.

Being friends will only get deeper and deeper. It's better to give up slowly, stop contacting her actively and let her fade out of life, which will make you feel better. Habit no longer likes her life.

No matter how hard you try, you may just be moved, but the result is still the same. Why bother her repeatedly? Are you really that humble?

This problem, for those who have failed in confession, is simply hitting themselves in the face, and shooting themselves in the foot is light. Confess to the object you like, and be friends if you fail, then you lose the meaning of confession.

You were friends before you confessed. It must not be true love to continue to be friends after the failure of confession. If you love someone deeply, how can you feel guilty and force the person who refuses to remain friends? If you love deeply, how can you get along so awkwardly in the future? To put it bluntly, it is a gambling game. The bet is the identity of an existing friend. Everyone will be happy if you win. Lost, nothing in my heart.

However, there are still many people who have to be friends with each other, but they can keep their distance invisibly. The previous relationship has long since ceased to exist, and the topics of chatting have become very few. Replies are considered repeatedly, and casual actions will stimulate one party's sexual desire again, so there will always be a person who fantasizes about this kind of getting along.

In response to this problem, there are so-called expert tips on the Internet. For example, A confessed to a girl, but the girl refused, and advised A not to have pressure and burden, and continue to be colleagues and friends. But when I went to work the next day, A felt embarrassed. Seeing her talking and laughing with other male colleagues made her very unhappy. Her attitude towards a hasn't changed. This often makes A mistakenly think that there is still a chance, and A is at a loss.

Expert answer one

You have told her that you have done what you have to do. As for whether she agrees or not, that is her right. Obviously, she has clearly refused, and she can show that this is her character as before. This matter is more of your own problem, but you can't let it go.

Expert answer 2

It's normal to be upset, but you still have to face it. There is no need for rigid relations between colleagues. If you are open to being friends, you will have a chance to meet again in the future. The more self-restraint, the less self-esteem. You are lively and generous, and she may like you after being frustrated. This is an infinite possibility.

Expert answer three

Everything has many sides, and any answer is more than 1 and 2. Do you think that if she refuses because she doesn't like you, it's just like and dislike? Is she telling the truth? Could it be her subjective will? There are many girls who have strange psychology in love, some obviously like it, and some also like to reject others. Do you really know her?

In my opinion, only the third answer depends on the score, or at least empathy. You don't know everything about her. You fill the answers to all your inner questions with imaginary results. I remember a fan who was in the same situation, but he resigned directly, which was very direct and good. He didn't ask the crack in his heart. When are you going to let yourself go?

Confession is a courageous thing, and the result is unknown. It may not even be a friend. Don't treat others as fools, and don't drive yourself crazy, okay?

"People you like don't have to be together." This sentence once exploded on the Internet. Think about it carefully, this sentence is still problematic. Since you like it, how can you be friends? If you don't give yourself a step, you won't be ashamed if you don't succeed.

Confession is to summon up courage, step on all obstacles in your heart and take this step. Look her in the eye and say, "I like you. Can you stay with me? " I even imagined how happy she would be when she showed a shy expression. The initial throb, after the precipitation of time, will eventually become the love you want to express.

But so much is completely imagined by myself, and the real result is unknown-whether it is confession success or failure. Success is happy, but if you fail, you won't even have friends. According to many people's feedback, no matter success or failure, you can't be friends. Just one of lovers and passers-by

She always knows what you mean, but she won't accept it. In fact, you can't guess whether she will accept it in the end, but you know that she knows what you mean, but you are worried about which time she didn't do well, whether it will make her feel bad, whether she will be afraid that her impression in her heart will decline, and so on.

To put it bluntly, it is to continue to be a friend's spare tire after the failure of confession, and may even evolve into a cloud spare tire. Sometimes I even wonder if the relationship is possible, so I have been immersed in my own fantasy, but the reality will not follow your script, which will hurt myself even more. It is the most uncomfortable to continue to be friends after the confession fails.

Forget it for some people who are very broad-minded. People who fail to express their love but continue to be friends must have a spare tire, or they may not, but who can say for sure?

Friends forget it, and they are passers-by from now on. No more interruptions is the best ending. More importantly, when you ask someone this question, you should have your own answer, right? If you want to do it in the end, it is nothing more than right and wrong.

Others said: "companionship is the longest confession." This is love, and it is single-minded; Perhaps the past is your wishful thinking, why do you insist on your initial heart, don't ask, give up; But once you let yourself go and stay away from her world, you will find that this is what others say: "I don't love you, it's fake love!" " "Maybe this is a person!