My new girlfriend is called a bus by my friends. What should I do?

Just look at yourself. Since you are a girlfriend, you know how much you know about her, and you know all her advantages and disadvantages. Since you are sure to be together, you accept all her gossip, but for me, you can't devote yourself wholeheartedly. After all, you don't know what many people are worried about. If you only know someone unilaterally, you are superficial.

Then you will probably get to know her social circle and the people she knows, as well as the way of knowing and the feelings she gets from contact. You should know her character to some extent. If you don't mind, but you start to mind because it comes from someone else's mouth, then you should seriously consider whether this fragile relationship should continue. Anyone who has seen the drama knows that there are many kinds of people who look down on others in this society, such as Xiao Qin and Aunt Kang.

And countless male friends around me told me that some people can't look at the surface, and those who look pure and harmless are actually particularly dissolute in their private lives; Some people look sexy and enchanting with yellow jokes, but they don't have much love experience. Moreover, I have tried to have a friend who only plays well with male friends. Those boys like to play with her and are secretly called social butterfly and bus by some people. In fact, there is nothing wrong with them. So what if friends cried and defended them? Finally, simply don't talk and walk out of that circle. What's even more ridiculous is that those who speak ill of her behind her back are not much more noble than her, and they also smoke, drink, curse and date. In fact, they just want to slander people and see jokes. It is up to you to judge.

If you are the kind of person who is attracted by her appearance and figure and doesn't know much about her, you can only draw conclusions from a few words of others. This person shows that you don't love much, so let her live; If not, it's because you know she is the one you want. If it proves that she is really the bus you say she is, it would be nice if she could be with you. Moreover, it should be noted that the people who slept with her on the bus, even if they were not boyfriends, such as dating and one-night stands, were not the kind of people who had been in love many times. (Because people with good conditions and capital don't lack pursuers at all, they can connect seamlessly when they are lovelorn, depending on whether they are willing or not. )

Ask yourself, what should you do if you like her? If you don't like her, break up. If you don't like this friend, you can break up. There is no need to wronged yourself for anyone.