Oh, my stupid student Yao Yanqin.

Yao Yanqin is my student. I taught her the history of Grade Three in 2006. 20 10 went to Zhengzhou Normal University for training. She is also a sophomore there. I invited her to have dinner together. She said, teacher, you don't seem to have taught me. I said, maybe I remember wrong.

In fact, in 2006, because of my life, I wanted to transfer. Yan Qin's father is a village party secretary named Yao Jianying, an old branch secretary who has worked for 37 years. At that time, I heard that I was leaving. Call and say, come out for dinner, if for no other reason, I'll see you off. Now I'll have someone drive to pick you up. That's settled.

Hang up when you're done. You can't refuse. This is the temper of the old branch secretary. He is crisp and neat, and he doesn't drag his feet.

It was a night in August, and it was raining cats and dogs. We took a red Changhe van and went to Ma Po "Er Dan Barbecue Shop" for a barbecue. When we got off the bus, the ground was half a foot deep and the waiter put some stools in the water. We stepped on the stool before getting off the bus.

In fact, I also know that this meal is the "Hongmen Banquet". Sure enough, I sat down at the dinner table, and Yao Zhi, who I have always called my brother, gushed, I don't know what I did wrong, bro, but I will apologize to you. I'll make three glasses of wine first, and then raise my neck and drink three glasses of white wine.

Next, three glasses of white wine were poured down. I know he doesn't dare to drink much, and he has high blood pressure and varicose veins. And he said, brother, I really don't know where I have sinned against you. My daughter should be in the third grade, but you want to transfer. I'll have three more drinks to apologize. Say that finish, and took the glass to drink, no one can stop. After drinking, I poured three more cups.

Can I drink this wine again? A table of people looked at us and apologized to each other. In this way, my transfer plan fell through and I became Yao Yanqin's history teacher.

I remember that time when I had dinner in the cafeteria of Teachers College, Yao Yanqin had to pay for dinner. I said, when you work to earn money, invite me to dinner. By the way, she hasn't invited me yet, so I'll let her owe it first.

She wants to be like Mulan.

20 13, graduated from yanqin university and worked in the county "development and reform commission" for one year. My job is very laid-back, so I can say that I have no worries about food and clothing.

It was in February of that year that Yan Qin went home to visit his father and saw his father sigh: I just can't figure it out. You said our Yaoao school is good, why didn't the teacher come? She asked, what happened?

Father said that school would start soon, and the headmaster said that there were still three teachers missing. The school building is so well built that no one wants to come to this remote place.

Yan Qin knows that this school was bought by his father with hard work, which is the pride of his life, because this school, Yao 'ao Village, a village with less than 700 people, was admitted to 12 college students in one year and 28 college students in three years, which is the greatest glory as a village party secretary.

Perhaps, at that moment, Yan Qin decided that she would go to Courtfield as a teacher and return to her village as a teacher. She wants to learn from Mulan. She wants to teach for her father.

At first, she also secretly bought books to prepare for the exam without telling her family. It didn't go well. 20 13, five points short, 20 14, 20 1 minute, 20 15, and she finally landed.

In this way, the "stupid student" of that year became my "stupid colleague".

Work and pay back the money

September 20 18, I went back to Yaoao school and became a colleague with Yan Qin. However, the original nine-year compulsory schools in kindergartens, primary schools and junior high schools have all been merged, and now there are only 40 teaching points left. There is only one person in the least class, and the largest class is not around 10. Some people say, oh, can these students be taught with their arms around them? I really can't teach. Those with better family conditions bought houses in counties and towns, and their children moved away. Parents are a little more active, going to work and do business in crowded places, and taking care of their children. Now the primary condition for rural children to talk about objects is not whether the boy looks right or not, but whether the man has a house in the county. This is just needed. So realistically, without a house, the woman won't even see you. Unless that boy looks better than Pan An, he is very capable and attracts girls to come by himself.

Without high-quality students, learning atmosphere and teaching and research environment, it is difficult, difficult and difficult.

In order to motivate students, Yan Qin thought of many ways, such as issuing awards, letters of commendation, certificates of honor and so on. The children took them home and threw them away. The walls at home are too rough to be pasted with glue and transparent glue. Finally, I found that sending something to eat was the most affordable. Sugar-coated haws, meat buns, French buns, chocolates, cherries, strawberries, lollipops. Later, some small toys, small fish tanks, small flower pots, small goldfish, succulents, homework notebooks, diaries and scented erasers were awarded. Then there are the seeds of Gesanghua, cosmos, gourd and sunflower.

Every morning, I saw Yan Qin get off at school, carrying a big bag and a small bag. The students studied hard because the bag contained their expectations and surprises.

I said, Yanqin, you write the invoice and the school will reimburse you. Please, principal, I bought them in the supermarket and Duo Duo, where I got receipts, and they were all cheap and worthless.

In this way, others work to make money, and she actually posts money backwards. Do you think she's stupid?

Become a "heterogeneous" among classmates.

Because I didn't study pedagogy in college, it is very strange and difficult for Yan Qin to prepare lessons in class. I can't just study I have to correct my homework in class during the day and have no time to read. In the evening, I put the child to bed, and she began to practice writing, reading and writing. Her classmates invited her to go shopping, but she didn't go. The classmates got together. People talk about how to make up and where to do beauty, but she talks about reading and writing.

A friend called her, hey, why are you getting more and more bookish? Does teaching make you stupid? Isn't he just a pupil? As for trouble?

Not a teacher, not knowing the joys and sorrows of education. If you are not a teaching teacher, it is difficult to understand what is isolation and what is crying. You can't understand it at all. Even if you read the words in the text dozens of times on the first day, the students will say, "Teacher, I still can't read." At that moment, it was by no means a sense of accomplishment, but a sense of collapse caused by a headshot.

Grade five students can't pronounce pinyin, bd, qp, starting with syllables. In the third grade, she couldn't write a composition, so Teacher Yan Qin wrote a composition on water with her students. She plays games, raises fish and plants flowers with students when she has time, just to improve the students' life experience and let the children have nothing to say and write in their compositions.

04 "You can't get cold water if you are frozen"

I did a lot of work, wrote nearly 200,000 words of teaching reflection, gave 80% of my new cotton-padded clothes to poor children, practiced calligraphy for 20 minutes every day, watched videos of famous teachers' excellent classes for one hour after the children rested, got up at five o'clock in the morning to write teaching experience, and called two underachievers to the office for individual counseling after lunch. ...

It's a pity that others can say ten things at a time. She is as stupid as my teacher. She moves quickly and speaks slowly. She can't even say a word ten times. In ordinary people's words, it's called "cold water can't spill cold water."

So honest people say they suffer, don't you think?

Will this affect her future?

Yan Qin offended a student's parents because of his work meal. Parents and her husband kept cursing in the background of WeChat and dared not look at their mobile phones every morning. They turned on the screen, missed calls and didn't read the news, all of which were abusive words. The mobile phone was black, and the other party changed the mobile phone number to continue, and even ran to the background to register three or four accounts to send private messages in turn.

Her family advised her to call the police, but she thought it was true. Once the police called the police and intervened, if the other party was detained for this matter, it would be politically tainted, which would probably affect the child's future. Immediate family members violate the law and commit crimes, and their children cannot take the civil service examination or serve as soldiers.

So, she simply turned off her mobile phone, changed her mobile phone number and deleted it. She wants to solve the contradiction with tolerance. I didn't know about it until after school started. To tell the truth, I am so angry that I can't sleep at night after reading the information.

You can imagine how wronged she was in those years. When she was pregnant for six months, when she was most vulnerable, the other party chose this time just to see her jokes. I asked her why she didn't call the police. However, if I win the lawsuit, people will also say that I bullied others with my father's power. Who told me that I was the daughter of the branch secretary? Maybe take this opportunity, people will give their father a complaint, forget it, just ignore it.

Good for good, why good for good? She deserves to be the daughter of an old branch secretary with a party history of 37 years.

Where is the root of the "stupid" girl?

I often wonder why this silly girl is so stupid.

It turns out that she has a silly father, a village with less than 700 people, but she wants to raise more than 500 thousand to build a school. It's ridiculous to shake a tree. Ask grandpa to tell grandma, collect money from all directions, still smile in the face of harsh words, and say "education is the foundation of a century-old plan". In Yao's own words, as long as you are willing to donate, let me kowtow to you. The teaching building was finally built, but the original donation was not in place. That year, the contractor lived in his house with his wife and children during the Spring Festival, but he had no choice but to sell his own wheat before sending the contractor away.

She also has a "stupid class teacher". Teacher Zhu Zhihui, who taught in Grade Three, stayed in this school for 16 years, and everyone else was transferred. He still stays here.

Like father, like daughter, like teacher, like disciple.

Stick to your dream.

Originally, she had two or three opportunities to be transferred back to the county seat. At least she didn't have to get up early and get greedy, and she didn't have to suffer from running around. However, she stayed. She said that Yaoao School is her alma mater, the place where she dreams of sailing, and the place where she cares wholeheartedly. This is her home, and she wants to spread youth and blood in her hometown.

"I am also a child in the countryside. I always believe that through my own efforts, I can influence or even change my child's life. " It is such a simple belief that makes Yan Qin stick to this school for six years, stick to the belief of education, stick to this teaching point, don't give up every student, and don't consider his future. Now, she is stepping into the students' hearts step by step, and is using her own hands and actions to realize a dream-to make Yaoao School the most beautiful rural primary school and the most beautiful paradise for children's childhood.

May this silly girl's dream come true.