In life, does a really smart person not easily reason with others?

As the saying goes:? It is reasonable to travel all over the world, but unreasonable cannot be moved. ?

Reasoning is a good thing, but people who reason will not be so tired. However, not all the people we meet every day are reasonable.

Many times, in order to prove that you are right, you will argue with others, express your thoughts and try to be reasonable? Impressive? People.

However, when you talk about a lot of great truths and are greeted by a bunch of fallacies on the other side, you will find a very important thing, that is:

You waste a lot of time trying to reason with an unreasonable person. You might as well save that little time and do more. ?

Like what? More than half a sentence? It's a waste of time to be with people of different languages. Everyone's time is so precious, why should it be wasted so easily?

A really smart person will not reason with others easily.

There used to be a neighbor in my hometown. When I was in my thirties, my wife disliked his idleness, never had a real job and never made money. Finally, I quarreled and divorced him.

Later, he got married again and divorced for the same reason a few years later.

The people around him couldn't stand it, and kindly advised him to find a real job and earn more money to at least support himself and his children.

The result was not to persuade him, but to scold him, saying that others were too lenient and that those women were obviously too poor to love the rich.

When I met this unreasonable neighbor, everyone around me slowly gave up and ignored him.

Being a man is a knowledge, and being a good man is also a skill. It is smarter not to reason with others.

Confucius said:? Don't talk, don't talk, lose people; Don't speak in words, speak in words, slip of the tongue; Those who know, don't lose people, don't lose words. ?

Therefore, a really smart person can reason with a reasonable person and reason with an unreasonable person, without losing face or words.

Someone said:? Mouth is for eating, not reasoning? It's a little rough, but it's not rough at all.

So-called? Talk less, don't be idle, cultivate your mind and cultivate your nature in order to live forever. ?

Many times, we will take pains to reason with others, only to prove that what we said is right. Or because of some misunderstanding, we always want to let others know our ideas and recognize ourselves through an exchange.

I don't know, in the process of reasoning, we often quarrel, and finally rationality becomes irrationality, which not only produces bad blood, but also produces resentment.

Like? Does it make sense that a scholar meets a soldier? The more you want to tell each other your own truth, the less they can understand you, but they will pester you in all kinds of ways.

If I knew this would happen, I believe no one would go to great lengths to reason with unreasonable people.

Everyone will encounter such a thing more or less. If you want to relax yourself and have less leisure, you must understand that you are lucky to have someone who knows you on the road of life. It doesn't matter if no one understands. Just go your own way and enjoy life.

Reasoning with unreasonable people is like casting pearls before swine. Even if you talk for a long time and your mouth is thirsty, the other person may not understand you, but it will make you feel very tired.

Maybe someone will say:? People are alive, do you have to tell one? Why? In other words, if people in the world are unreasonable, society will become disorderly and no one can stand it. ?

That's true, but we must admit that most people are actually reasonable. After all, unreasonable people are a minority, but it is these few people who will affect our mood after we meet them.

What we have to do is not to try to make unreasonable people reason, but to leave our strength on more valuable things and do things that are more beneficial to ourselves.

Colleague Zhu Xiao is almost 30 years old, but he doesn't have a girlfriend yet, and getting married is a distant thing.

Every time he goes home, he meets his relatives at home and urges him to find a girlfriend to get married. Zhu Xiao will explain at the beginning that he hasn't met the right one, which is also a rare thing.

But when relatives heard him say this, they didn't understand him at all, saying that other children of the same age had gone to school, and they also said that they would introduce him to someone. Zhu Xiao has heard so much that he is too lazy to explain.

On the contrary, he is a friend of Zhu Xiao and understands him very well. Tell him not to worry. He must find the right person before he can get married, otherwise he will be unhappy after marriage, which will be the greatest harm to both of them.

We have to admit that some people are born unreasonable. If you meet such a person, even if you reason with him, he may not understand you, let alone you.

Instead, shut up and leave the truth to someone who deserves it more.

Just like Zhu Xiao, at first he wanted his relatives to understand him, so he would explain patiently. I didn't expect that no matter how I explained it, others still didn't understand him or what he was thinking.

For such a person, even if you tell him a hundred times, he may not listen.

So why bother? Even if others don't understand, they will be tired and waste time.

People who like to reason with others just waste their time on unworthy people and things.

People who don't reason with others easily are really smart people.

I hope we can all learn to be smart people.