More than a dozen children at home need to prepare tens of thousands of red envelopes for the New Year. Do you want to go back for the Spring Festival?

Let me ask you a question. If your parents, brothers and sisters have more than a dozen children, each child should give at least 100 yuan as a red envelope. Would you like to go back for the New Year?

Because I'm from Yunnan, and I'm married in Guangxi, and it's the first year of marriage, it's essential to go back and give a red envelope. And it's the kind that you can't get out of.

Anyway, I don't want to, because my family has many brothers and sisters and many nephews and nieces. Every niece and nephew has more than a dozen children. During the New Year in China, all the brothers and sisters get together. It's not like Guangdong people in our hometown give red envelopes. Just give me the meaning of 10 yuan 20 yuan, and a good brand will do. We give red envelopes at least 100 yuan, often four or five hundred yuan. If you give less, you will be laughed at and called stingy.

I chatted with my grandmother last night. She asked me, are you going back to your parents' home or staying at home this Spring Festival? We'll talk about it then. Grandma said you can go back if you want, or you can go to the second grade. You two can drive for more than ten hours. I thought about it and said I couldn't go back, because if I went back, there would be four or five thousand lucky money for my children alone, not counting the elders and other expenses. Grandma smiled. She said you were so stingy. You are really as stingy as your grandfather. Your grandfather doesn't want to go back to his hometown for the New Year either. He says he will give money when he goes back to his hometown. Now that I have a granddaughter, that's it. It's not that one family doesn't enter one family.

Jokes are jokes. Think about it, it's really unbearable to spend so much money at once. In fact, it is really not stingy. My husband and I have just been married for a year. When I go back to my parents' house, I must give a red envelope, even if one child 100, so my husband and I have to prepare more than 3000 lucky money for our children, not counting the children of our elders and cousins. If you add it, you need at least 8 thousand as the foundation. How dare I go back to my mother's house for the New Year? It's not that I don't want to, but that I dare not.

Originally, we are in trouble now. In addition, because of poor health, I have to go to the hospital to see a doctor and take medicine every month. It's a good thing that I can barely make ends meet.

Just think about the lucky money, you have to prepare a small 10 thousand, plus other expenses, it will cost tens of thousands to go home for a few days. It is impossible for me not to think about my livelihood next year because of a custom of going back to my parents' house in the second day of junior high school. Some people may say that I am just stingy, once a year. It's really only once, but this time it will cost us a year's living expenses. I don't want to hit my face and pretend to be fat. Do you think I did the right thing?