How to use it to chase girls? Common steps to chase a girl, catch a girl in 3 days

As dating software continues to improve and innovate, there are more and more ways to flirt with girls. We have seen too many people searching for girlfriends by swiping right on people nearby on WeChat or QQ. Flirting is also a step on the stage to attract girls, so many single brothers want to have one-night stands and chase girlfriends by improving their chatting skills. Under the ethereal mask of the Internet, when we can't see each other, chatting is very important at the moment. Therefore, we have been receiving letters or private messages from many brothers. Can you write a mobile WeChat article? Or the whole process of picking up girls from people near QQ. If you want to chase girls on social media and social software, just follow these general steps. Below, let’s take a look at them one by one.

General steps for chasing girls

1. Construction of presentation surfaces

In the early days of two people getting along, the first impression often determines whether they can Get in touch. On the Internet, when people don't know each other at first, if a stranger adds her as a friend, they will definitely look at her profile picture immediately, and then check her WeChat Moments more deeply. If your avatar picture and WeChat Moments display are very low, would a strange girl be interested in getting to know you? On the contrary, if your performance is OK, the girl will be deeply interested in you. That will certainly make it easier to chat.

The display can show your lifestyle, ideological consciousness and your personal hobbies. Before you chat with a girl, the girl will have a good impression of you. Then the chat will come Of course the sky is easy to handle.

2. Developing hobbies

A girl who looks very good will usually be surrounded by no less than 3-4 men pursuing her. If you want to be in love with her, To stand out among many boys, you must be different from others. You need to be interesting, funny, suave and talented to get a girl interested in you. So, if you have no interest or talent, how can you attract her interest?

Now you also need to know some chatting skills and how to start. For example, you can use curiosity to start: "From your avatar, I discovered that you should have such a characteristic" or, Looking at your WeChat Moments, I think your eyes are very special? Girls love to gossip and are very curious. When they see something like that, they all want to know what characteristics passers-by think of her, and what’s special about her. By using the psychological state of a girl, you can quickly start a topic discussion.

In short, when you first contact, if you want to open a topic, you need to think from the perspective of the other party. When the other party sees this topic, whether they want to accept it or not. Here I will tell you an example

For example: You: What are you doing?

Girl A: I have just eaten, and I have nothing to do

Girl B: I have just eaten, but I feel uncomfortable eating and the vegetables are salty

Compare to 2 above Which response do you think is easier to touch and continue the topic? Of course, girl B's response will obviously be easier to answer. You can reply at this time: "Did you add too much salt?" or "Have you just learned to cook?" In this way, the topic will be opened. After going back and forth, there is no sense of distance between me and the girl.

3. Build your own chat structure

After basic contact, both parties have a certain understanding of each other. Now you need to build yourself and this chat structure. A girl's chat structure. The structure means that when chatting with girls, you must have your own moral bottom line rather than standards, such as not kneeling down to lick a guy, not changing your point of view just because of a girl's disgust, fanning girls, and making girls feel that you have a point of view. with standard people. Usually, it happens that outstanding talents with standards and opinions are more attractive to girls. Have you ever seen a girl who likes to kneel down and lick the boy who is trying to get her?

4. Clear your guard and get information

Many brothers often fall into the misconception that after adding a girl’s WeChat, they will understand everything.

Where are you from? How old are you? May I have your name? What is your job?

I wish I could find out the details of this girl at once, and then I thought that the two of them knew each other very well after exchanging basic information. In fact, the girl had a black face on the phone at this time. strip.

Am I too familiar with you? How old am I? What do you do? Where do you think someone is doing this shit to you? Are you checking your household registration or looking for someone by their real name? Where did this stupid X come from?

So what exactly do you need to get rid of your wariness?

Based on the surface: first blur the definition, and then look for improvement. Don't ask directly, get the information by beating around the bush, and then reveal your information to her bit by bit.

For example: I found that your reputation is very different. Have you practiced professionally? You definitely didn’t study broadcasting and hosting, right?

Or, listening to your voice, I feel that you are not very old, you are not born in 2000, right? In this way, you can get the girl's basic information bit by bit. At the same time, when chatting with you, the girl will definitely want to know how old you are. Like me, I usually know how to pretend. The old man said, "I'm not young anymore. People used to want me to be a little star, but now?"

Through the exchange of basic information, the two of them will have some understanding. This is what he does. At his age, he doesn’t look bad.

5. Choose a girl

Why choose a girl? Not all girls are the type we like and conform to our standards. Now we need to talk to the girl about some irreversible topics, and then take the opportunity to ask some questions, and then judge whether she is the type we like based on her responses

For example: "Do you like Do you want to cook?" or "I think girls who are reasonable and cute are the most popular with boys." According to this kind of puzzle, we can grasp some characteristics of girls. If a girl gets excited when it comes to cooking and tells you how to make all kinds of dishes, then she is definitely a good cook; otherwise, it is not the case. If you reply "Then it's not that no one likes me anymore, I'm unlovable and unreasonable." Now you can throw out a compliance test. So if you want to become more lovable, now there is an opportunity to do so. You become lovable, can you pretend to be cute? If you can, act cute. "

The purpose of selecting women is to enable us to better judge whether this girl is worthy of our liking. The obedience test can judge to what extent a girl is attracted to you. In this way, we can You can carry out subsequent invitations to further enhance the relationship.

6. Firm invitations

It is recommended that brothers conduct pre-invitation before inviting. Pre-invitation is to communicate with girls. Before meeting, let the girl know what may happen when meeting you. For example, we say in chat, "If we meet in a few days, I want to give you a big hug" or "What do you think if we meet?" We are in the movie, you sit next to me, the plot of the movie makes you cry alone, I will wipe away your tears, and then lend you a shoulder. "This approach is to embed this in the girl's brain. For a moment, the girl will feel a little hopeful because of this, wondering what to do if this is the case, do you need to hug her, do you need to lean on his shoulder?

When inviting, I suggest you be vague first. Please invite before announcing the invitation. When meeting for the first time, it is not recommended to invite immediately.

For example: "I recently discovered that a newly opened Korean barbecue restaurant is particularly delicious, and there are many Korean celebrities posted in it. Image, you can try it together in the future.

Then immediately next time: "I paid my salary today, let's go have barbecue together tomorrow and take a walk."

If the girl has time and doesn't have an appointment, she will basically Will agree. Girls generally hate making choices and like to be led, so they need to be more forceful when announcing invitations.

If the specific process of chasing girls on WeChat and other social software is here, you just need to do every step well, don’t rush, step by step, then you can successfully invite the girl, and then Get her again.

No one can achieve success easily. The steps to attract girls. All success in this world requires early investment in chasing girls. It is also necessary to invest time, energy, and even money. The sky will not fall into a trap, and neither will your girlfriend. It is unlikely that it was given by recharging phone credit.