After hearing what sentence, the husband secretly took his son to do paternity test.

You have to admit that the power of language is far stronger than you think, and the harm it causes may be devastating.

If the damage caused by external force is physical, it will always heal, and the mental damage caused by words is lasting.

The harm of words is more like a latent virus, but it will gradually show its power over time and will break out one day.

That's why I always tell you to be careful what you say and do. No matter in life or on the internet, I hope you can keep your mouth shut.

As the saying goes, "killing people over their hearts" is the most cruel thing to compare a person's spiritual despair with the physical body, and how to do this is achieved through words.

People are animals with high IQ, and sometimes it is not a good thing. Having one's own thoughts and subjective consciousness, thinking too much may just be an unintentional joke blurted out by the other party without thinking, but the audience may extend to many, many.

The final result is the suspicion of truth and falsehood, the suspicion of people and things that you or once believed in, which makes many unwarranted desires increase guilt and meanness, which has an impact on real life and even irreparable consequences.

Maybe you think this is just a joke, but you never know how much trouble and harm this sentence will cause to the other party.

Maybe you think it has nothing to do with you, but the other person's psychological endurance is too low. You didn't kill Boren, but Boren died because of you. Aren't you an accomplice? You can't escape the guilt of being outspoken.

10 days ago, Janice filed for divorce with Liu Wei without giving Liu Wei any chance to refute it. Janice took the children and all her personal belongings directly, and returned to her parents' home the afternoon after she made a clear attitude with Liu Wei.

Janice left in a hurry, in a hurry. Even the divorce agreement was handed over to Liu Wei by the client the next day. Liu Wei has two thin pieces of paper in his hand, but his heart is heavy. He can't lift his hand, he doesn't have the courage to open it, and he doesn't want to sign his name.

He wants to make up for it and pray for his wife's forgiveness, but he doesn't know how to say it. After all, it is all because of him that he and his wife have come to this irreversible step.

If he can, he really wants to go back to a month ago, or even more than four years ago, and slap himself at that time, so that Liu Wei at that time would not be stupid, but how is that possible?

Even if Wei Liu has more regrets, things have come to this point, and he can only accept it humbly, sign the divorce agreement, and then hand it over to janice.

Janice took the divorce papers, as if she didn't want to see Liu Wei again, and turned away without saying a word. Liu Wei stopped her.

Janice walked for ten days, but Liu Wei didn't see the child for ten days. He misses it very much. He had hoped to meet the children halfway many times, but Dzhanis refused. The reason is that one, but it is extremely lethal, leaving Liu Wei speechless.

But he still wanted to try, so he and Janice pleaded:

"Somehow we are husband and wife, as for you hate me so much? I won't be short of child support, so can I always look after the children and take them home? After all, I am also the father of the child, and the child needs me. You have no right to let me look after the children. "

Wu replied with an extremely contemptuous expression and tone:

"No, I once gave you a chance. I used to hope that you could love him more, and so did the children. But do you remember how you treated him then?

How dare you say that a child needs a father? He asked himself, when he really needed you, where were you, what did you do and what did you say? Don't you know in your heart?

I didn't list the child's alimony and divorce regulations, and I don't need you to give me a penny.

I just want you to spend the rest of your life in regret, make you miserable, make you uneasy, and let you never get the understanding between me and my children. Do you understand now? "

Janice's hatred made Liu Wei self-effacing. He knows what makes this woman who once loved herself crazy, and he also knows that Janice will never forgive him again in her life no matter what she does.

When Janice and Liu Wei got married six years ago, they lived a simple but happy life.

At that time, many people around were not optimistic about the combination of Janice and Wei Liu. I think Janice, a girl, has a good family condition and a nice person. How can she find such a husband, just like a big girl, who can't speak anything neatly and has poor family conditions?

Wei Liu is really not very good, and his family conditions are very general. Some people are not very confident, but Janice just likes his good qualities of being honest, diligent, hard-working and quiet.

Dzhanis never abandoned her husband. This girl is sincere, never gossips, and doesn't like others to make irresponsible remarks in front of her. Her character is quite childish.

She never compares her husband with that of her best friend's colleague. She always feels that life is her own. There is no need to compare her husband with others. She thinks that her husband is very kind to her and she has a good life. That's enough.

She has also been cleaning up Liu Wei. If others want to say it, it's someone else's business. She can't shut people up and never talk again. Just take it seriously.

With such an enlightened wife, how bad can marriage be? In those years, with Janice's support and help, Wei Liu gained a lot of self-confidence, made great progress in her career, and everything developed in a good place.

The following year, Dzhanis gave birth to a beautiful son to Wei Liu. Wei Liu was so happy that he named his son Liu Yao, which means dazzling and shining.

His nickname is Zhou Xiao. What he told his wife at that time was that his wife and son were his whole universe. It can be seen that he loved this son so much, and that he paid so much attention to his wife at that time.

But not long after, something happened, which directly led to Wei Liu's psychological mutation and laid a hidden danger for his later marriage.

Ten years ago, Wei Liu really loved his son. As long as he doesn't go to work, he takes his children everywhere and forces others to be happy as fathers. Sometimes it is really annoying, but it is also human nature.

That is, during that time, Liu Wei's old junior high school classmates suddenly found Liu Wei and said that everyone was on holiday. They were counting the number of students in their hometown and were going to have a classmate party and asked Liu Wei if he wanted to come.

Anyway, Liu Wei also nothing important matter, that is, promised to go. At that time, Liu Wei wanted to go with his wife and children. It happened that Janice was busy that day, so he didn't come. Later, Liu Wei took his son to attend the reunion.

At the reunion, naturally, many people praised Liu Wei's son for his good looks, not entirely for each other. Liu Wei's son looks like his mother, very delicate, with big eyes and delicate facial features. Although he is still young, the little guy is already very smart. At first glance, it is the kind of child with aura, who doesn't like to talk and is particularly clever. How can he not be liked?

Liu Wei is certainly happy to hear others praise his son. But I don't know who it was, and for some reason, a word suddenly popped up, which made Wei Liu feel uncomfortable at once.

"Liu wei, sister-in-law must be very beautiful? This child is nothing like you. "

After that, all the students burst into laughter, but Liu Wei couldn't laugh. He has always felt that this sentence is meaningful. Since someone said this sentence, he has always felt that others are not looking at him right.

Because of this, he ate a tasteless meal and didn't take care of the children when he got home. A person sulked with him and found that he was wrong and cared about Liu Wei, but Liu Wei didn't talk and kept it in mind.

What can he say? His classmates say that his son is not like him. He can't open his mouth and finds it difficult to open it.

From then on, he gradually became sensitive, as if he would always hear such a voice around him. He didn't notice it before, but since someone deliberately reminded him, he began to think involuntarily and leaned aside as soon as he heard something.

The longer the child grows, the more people praise the child for being beautiful, and then looking at Liu Wei's complicated expression, Liu Wei began to think.

Does he want to say something? Does he know anything? Is he laughing at me in his heart?

Gradually, I don't like taking children out more and more, and I really start to doubt my wife. Until later, he didn't even want to touch a finger of his son.

On one occasion, the child held out his hand for him to hug. At that time, he held back the fire because he was depressed. He felt even more annoyed when he saw his son's face. He stretched out his hand and pushed his son away, giving him a fart pier, sitting on the ground and crying.

In fact, janice has always vaguely known her husband's fault, but her husband refused to talk about it, and she couldn't enlighten her, but her husband's attitude became worse and worse, until she pushed the child to the ground and sat down, and janice finally got angry.

"What's your fire? You must take it out on your children. He doesn't know anything and pissed you off. Are you such a father? "

Janice's words made Liu Wei a little hot, and now his anger has reached its peak, and he began to speak openly.

"He doesn't understand anything, don't you understand? Why am I angry? Don't you have a little bit in your heart? What have you done that you don't know? Now in the eyes of outsiders, I have grass on my head. What do you think I'm doing? Why should I be angry? "

"Liu Wei, you are simply unreasonable and unreasonable!"

But the seeds of doubt have taken root in Liu Wei's heart, and they can't be pulled clean anyway. They always look for something from time to time. After all, there is bad blood between Janice and Liu Wei.

That is, a month ago, Liu Wei heard a message from a colleague in the office.

"Hey, did you watch the news? It's really interesting. Well, the old man's son thought the child was not his, so he went to have a paternity test. Guess what, the grandson is his own, and the son is not the old man's. It's a pity to help people raise their children and grandchildren all their lives. I dare not shoot TV series. "

Hearing this, Liu Wei couldn't sleep that night. In order to dispel his doubts, the next day, he couldn't help secretly taking the child out of the kindergarten and doing a paternity test without telling his wife.

But paper can't hold fire after all, especially when children are young. He doesn't know what his father took him to do, but he knows it. He also knows that his father took him out for a long time that day and bought him delicious food. In the evening, the child excitedly told Janice about it.

Although it was unclear, Janice understood. Janice and Liu Dawei had a quarrel, but Liu Wei felt that he was not wrong.

"I don't doubt you, I just ... I just want to reassure myself. I am afraid to help others raise children all my life, and I am afraid to be a happy father. What's the matter? When the results come out, we will live with peace of mind and I will make it up to you, not that we are talking. "

Janice laughed after hearing this: "What a joke! Liu Wei, I'm telling you now that the results have come out. If Xiaoyu is yours, I will divorce you, and I won't leave the child with you. Anyway, you don't like him, question him. At that time, please be a man, let us go, stay away from us and never appear in my sight again! "

After quarreling with Janice, Liu Wei's heart was completely out of order. After listening to Liu Qian's words, he suddenly realized that maybe he had been narrow-minded all these years.

He was afraid of getting the report, which made him happy, but the ending made him unhappy, so that it took him a long time to get the report.

There is no suspense in the result. Zhou Xiao, of course, is his child. He was relieved when he saw the result, and immediately tried to make up for his wife, but she didn't respond at all and didn't say she was leaving.

Liu Wei was secretly pleased, thinking that his wife was angry for a while and didn't have to take it seriously, but he didn't know that Janice knew the result and immediately went through the formalities of resignation and children's transfer. After everything was done, she formally filed for divorce with Wei Liu, and the original thing happened. What happened to Wei Liu is really a pity. Obviously, we can live a good life. As a result, because of one sentence, the husband and wife broke up and a family eventually fell apart, which made people feel helpless about Wei Liu's stupidity and hated people who gossiped for no reason.

In our daily life, we are often influenced by language. Just like Wei Liu, you take what others say seriously and take it to heart. In fact, on the other hand, if you believe, you will have it.

In fact, after all, language has no substantial lethality, and only oneself can really hurt yourself and the people you cherish.

Although the body and square face are really powerful in speaking language, even if they are powerful, how can a strong and determined person be influenced by mere language? Or you're not firm inside.

In our life, we will always encounter all kinds of gossip, criticism and uncertainty from others, and we will feel wronged sometimes. I feel that I don't even know you. I have no resentment in the past and no hatred in the near future. Why do you judge me like this?

Later, I also wanted to open it. The total length of the mouth is on others, but the heart is on yourself. What other people think is none of your business.

You just have to be yourself, manage yourself, do what you think is right, take the road you think is right, and keep your original heart.

As for what others say about you and your family affairs, let them say it, ignore it and don't respond.