(Family Education) How do children communicate before an injection?

In fact, children's endurance is amazing. As long as they are not scared and given reasonable psychological expectations, most people can accept some seemingly difficult things.

How to face the injection is not a trivial matter that can be completely ignored.

What's more, some psychological effects will be transferred to other things.

Adults should never judge children by their own feelings, thinking that it is very simple, just hold them down or coax them to play.

Parents should educate their children to accept as calmly as possible and cultivate their courage to endure pain.

Ma Ma:? The baby is sick now, coughing and having a fever. Do you feel sick and comfortable?

Baby:? uncomfortable

Mom: Does the baby want to hurry?

Baby: I think.

At this time, the child began to cough and have a fever.

I kissed the child on the cheek.

Mom: The medicine prescribed by the doctor can make the baby better and make him comfortable. If you don't get an injection, you'll never get well.

Children are actually the most sensible. As long as adults can correctly explain their reasons to children, children will understand. She is ill and uncomfortable. She must want to recover as soon as possible.

Although the child accepted the injection rationally, the little mind was still a little scared.

Baby: Mom, does the injection hurt?

Ma Ma (smiling, flat tone): Oh, it hurts a little, but it doesn't hurt very much, just like little ass who fell on the bench the other day.

The child's anxiety naturally eased.

Mom: Do you think the fall was painful that day, or just a little?

Baby: It hurts a little.

Ma Ma: Oh, that injection is similar to that, but it hurts a little.

(Mom tells the child frankly)

The baby doesn't cry when he wrestles, and there's no need to cry when he gets an injection, right?

(The child nods)

(The child is a little anxious and nervous)

Mom: Mom thinks the baby is very brave. Try to be brave. No, don't cry if you can't help it. If you really can't help it, it doesn't matter if you want to cry

Mother's words encouraged the children, made them feel brave, gave them a way out, and let them know that crying is ok. )

? The expression of a mother talking to her child is always cheerful and relaxed. It's really simple to show that an injection is necessary.

The child will also be very calm. The child's wish is to be a hero, and at the same time, he is convinced of his mother's words, because her mother has never lied to her. Since it is only "a little painful", there is nothing to be afraid of.

However, many parents cajole, intimidate and force their children to take injections every day.

Parents' practice not only magnifies children's pain, but also fails to teach children to face difficulties bravely.

Adults should have several principles for some pains that children must bear.

? First, be calm and don't show anxiety.

If adults appear anxious first, children will feel that the problem is serious and will scare them.

The second is to explain to children why they should do this in a language that children can understand.

For example, telling the child that he is sick now and needs an injection can cure the disease. Don't think that children don't understand and don't say anything.

? The third is to tell the truth about the pain that children have to bear, and try not to exaggerate or narrow it too much.

For example, many parents will say "it doesn't hurt at all" in order to eliminate their children's nervousness when they take their children for injections. After the last time, the children will never be fooled again. If they challenge the incomprehensible reason and courage, they will lose a chance to sprout, and they will not trust adults in the future.

? The fourth is to inspire children's courage.

The child's endurance is actually amazing. Most people can accept some seemingly difficult things as long as they are not scared and given a proper psychological expectation.

At the same time, we should also give them a way out, and don't let children feel ashamed of their "weakness".

? Fifth, we will never achieve our goals by cajoling or buying.

Some parents achieve their goals by "arresting you without an injection" or "buying you a remote control car after taking this medicine", which is very bad.

Coaxing and buying can only solve temporary problems, but can't really relieve children's nervousness, and it also hinders children's moral development.

Tell children that "an injection hurts a little" and teach them to be calm and calm in the face of difficulties, which can not only alleviate the pain, but also protect themselves.