What do you dislike hearing other people say the most after studying medicine?

Once I took a taxi and as soon as I got in, the driver asked me what I did. I politely told the driver that I was a doctor. Then there was the following dialogue:

Big brother: Let me tell you, the doctor is cheating

Me:? Why?

Brother: I had a headache some time ago. The doctor told me that I couldn’t see clearly after a CT scan, and then did an MRI. It was really evil and there were hidden rules.

Me: It’s like this... (I explained to him in detail the difference between the two examinations and the necessity of doing them, trying to impress him with my patience and professionalism)

Brother: Do the doctors have no clinical experience? They can tell what the disease is at a glance. I think they are malicious and want to make money from us. (After explaining for a long time, the result I expected was not like this)

Me: Uh

Silent for a while

Brother: I feel uncomfortable in my stomach. See what's wrong with me

Me: I'm not good at school

Brother: Just show it to me

Me: Then brother, give me free fares

Brother: Aren’t your doctors very rich?

Me: Uh

After another long silence, Brother turned on the radio, which was playing the latest epidemic

Brother: It’s been eight months, and these doctors haven’t solved the epidemic yet (sighing a long sigh of disappointment)

Me: (very frightened) Brother, let me get off here. Come on, I'll just walk over. I'm disappointed...

Except for a few big professors, the majority of Chinese doctors are ordinary junior doctors and students. They cannot all be as experienced and qualified as big professors, but they are definitely paying attention. We always require our doctors to be caring, self-denial, and patient. One-third of our clinical courses They are all talking about how to care for patients and how to communicate with them, but at the same time, we also hope that the public can give some understanding and tolerance to the most ordinary doctors.

I once read this paragraph about medical staff on the Internet:

As long as there is one breath left, we must do our best. However, doctors are not gods, and they cannot guarantee that every rescue will be successful. An emergency room doctor walked silently outside the hospital and burst into tears after his 19-year-old patient died after ineffective efforts to save him.

After reading this passage, I was deeply moved and understood:

There is no superman or hero in this world.

The so-called heroes are just ordinary people around us who stand up in times of national crisis and when others face life-threatening dangers.

Just like during the epidemic, countless doctors abandoned their families and risked their lives to support Wuhan.

Aren’t they afraid of death? No, they are also afraid of death.

They also have their own lovers and their own small families, but at that moment, they chose to put down their own small families, put aside their own worries, overcome their own fears, and chose to save everyone.

If you are a medical student, you can use these ↓↓↓!

What I hate the most is that doctors are really evil, have no medical ethics, and have a bad attitude.

Some patients have encountered doctors who were not very good. I think it is understandable that the doctor is not good.

But the vast majority of doctors are very ethical and responsible. They have the honor of being doctors and will not mess around.

However, many bad media promote it as if doctors are the black sheep.

The price of medical expenses is not determined by doctors, nor is it decided by doctors how much can be reimbursed or what can be reimbursed.

But the blame lies with the doctor.

After all, the medical industry is not an ordinary service industry, and it is impossible for every doctor to be shaped according to the most perfect template (soft attitude, excellent technology, and self-sacrifice).

If you can't stand it, file a complaint through formal channels and don't go under the knife.

Frequently encountered situations:

1-As soon as the patient enters the door, he asks the medical staff "Is there anyone there?"

2-Whenever you see a young medical staff, you always say they are an intern or an apprentice? The master has brought you out.

3-Some patients never listen to the advice and treatment plans of medical staff when seeing a doctor. Their relatives and friends often say that they can’t do anything. They would rather believe what the laymen around them say and don’t listen to the medical staff at all. Said.

4- Many patients came in, and the medical staff greeted them and asked what was wrong. The patients or their families thought that the medical staff were young or not the medical staff they were looking for, so they ignored them at all and did not even reply. A sound. There is no basic respect.

5-Some patients will think that the medical staff are interns or apprentices because they have never seen a doctor before. They think that the new medical staff are interns or apprentices and have never thought of working elsewhere before. of.

Those who often talk about "medical ethics" and then believe in "miracle doctors" on the Internet do not believe in hospital doctors. They also test doctors and say that your doctors have no clinical experience and still need to check this and that for a small problem. You are just here to make money, and there are all kinds of weird people out there anyway

If you look at others with the eyes of a bitch, then everyone will look like a bitch.

Before you meet the doctor, if you think of the doctor as a bad person in your mind, then an interesting situation will appear. Just like asking a normal person to prove that he is not mentally ill, it is very difficult. If you have trust and expectation in the doctor, you will get a good response.

The last thing the doctor wanted to hear was a hostile suspicion. For example, if you suspect that a doctor is "black", he will basically not be able to treat you well, because everything he does will be set as malicious by you. When he tries to dispel your doubts, he has to use his own actions, and these actions are all questioned by you. Therefore, it is difficult for them to complete medical treatment and prove their innocence in a short period of time.

By the way, while doctors are required to be good doctors, patients should also be mentally prepared to be good patients. At the very least, you should mentally sort out your medical history before seeing a doctor, state your symptoms as clearly as possible, organize the previous test sheets, and bring them with you. You can't choose the day when you get sick, but when you see a doctor, you can often choose. Try to avoid shift handovers in the morning, lunch and evening, and meal times. This is not done because the doctor is noble, but to give the other party the minimum respect. The doctor had not yet swallowed the food in his mouth, so his speech was inevitably slurred. When handing over a shift, the person leaving get off work has to explain many matters to the person taking over, all related to patients and equipment. You can't say no if you come at this time, but it would be unwise and it would waste some time. Before the operation, it is best for family members to wait half an hour in advance, because the doctor is likely to have to explain some important matters to you. Surgery is no small matter. To put it bluntly, even if you are buying pork, people will still ask you, not to mention you are performing surgery on someone. Don't let the doctor look for you at this time and you disappear. Or you may stubbornly believe that the doctor is blackmailing you, or seeking benefits. The doctor just reiterates the risks of the operation to the family members. If the family members have a clear attitude, the pressure on the doctor during the operation will be reduced a lot. Also, if you don’t understand something clearly, you must ask the doctor for clarification. You can’t take things for granted, or pretend to understand because you’re afraid of being laughed at. The doctor is here to treat you. He really has no intention of judging how advanced or smart you are, and he has no intention of interfering in your family affairs. Seeing a doctor is just seeing a doctor. Don't turn a simple medical treatment process into a complicated relationship. A good doctor needs not only his own cultivation, but also the supervision and encouragement from his patients. Patient trust and verbal thanks trump everything.