How to invite leaders out for dinner?

If you want to invite a leader out to dinner, the most important thing is: I hope you can join us.

There are many "hypocritical" pleasantries in China's traditional culture. For example: you are free to visit my home; I'll invite you to dinner another day; Let's get together next time and so on. You want to invite the leader to dinner, but when you ask him if he is free, he usually refuses! Put yourself in others' shoes. The leader will not be greedy for your meal, and will naturally refuse.

Since you are a subordinate of the leader, you should master the work rhythm and mood of the leader, and invite the leader to dinner when he is at leisure and happy: Leader, today is the weekend, and I want to invite you to dinner. I hope you can join us. Since we want to invite you to dinner, we should keep an eye on the progress and get things done.

Matters needing attention in inviting leaders to eat

Invite leaders to dinner, and adhere to the principles of "not interested" and "not interested". Under the strong signal of interest and purpose, leaders will instinctively make "defensive decisions" and refuse. Therefore, please invite the leaders to eat, be sure to make preparations in advance and think about "starting from scratch" in advance.

For example, after talking with the leaders about work, they can talk about private affairs, draw closer to each other, make the relationship more "personal", and then invite the leaders to dinner, which will be a natural transition. Find a good "header" in advance, and it is best not to let the leaders have a "psychological burden". If your reason is leadership, I'd like to invite you to dinner. I hope you can promote me next time.