Why do most marriages hear women complain?

In marriage, we often hear women complaining. They complain that their husbands are inconsiderate, their lives are trivial and heavy, and their family responsibilities are unequal. So, why do most people hear women complain in marriage? What kind of psychological and social phenomena are hidden in this?

1. Differences in social role orientation

Since ancient times, men have played a strong role in society, while women have been endowed with the image of weakness and dependence. This role orientation makes it easier for women to complain in marriage. They may feel that they have taken on too many family responsibilities, but their husbands have not given them enough care and support. In addition, women are relatively sensitive both physically and psychologically, and are more vulnerable to stress and troubles in life, so complaining has become a way for them to vent their emotions.

2. Different ways of communication

There are great differences between men and women in communication methods. Research shows that women are more inclined to express their feelings and needs, while men are more inclined to solve problems. In marriage, women may complain to express their dissatisfaction and expectations, while men may choose to remain silent to avoid conflicts and contradictions. This difference in communication methods leads to more obvious complaints from women in marriage.

3. The influence of social pressure

With the development of society, women are under increasing pressure at home and in the workplace. They should not only undertake the responsibility of family care and education, but also strive for their position and value in the workplace. In this case, women easily feel tired and helpless, which leads to complaints. As the main economic pillar of the family, men often choose to suffer silently, unwilling to show their plight and pain, although they are also facing great pressure.

4. The bondage of traditional ideas

In the traditional concept of marriage, women are regarded as accessories of the family, and their value is mainly reflected in their dedication and sacrifice to the family. This concept makes it easier for women to complain in marriage, because they feel that their efforts have not been rewarded as they should. Under this concept, men are often regarded as the pillars of the family, and their responsibility is to support their families, rather than paying attention to their wives' feelings and needs. This difference in concept is also an important reason why women complain in marriage.

To sum up, there are many reasons why women complain in marriage, which are not only related to external factors such as social role orientation, communication style, social pressure, traditional ideas, but also closely related to women's own psychological characteristics.

To solve this problem, we need to make efforts from multiple levels: changing the traditional gender concept and advocating gender equality; Strengthen communication and understanding between husband and wife to face the pressures and challenges in life together; Pay attention to women's mental health and help them establish correct self-awareness and values.

Only in this way will the complaints in marriage gradually decrease and be replaced by a harmonious and happy family life.