If the child is disobedient, the teacher will teach you two tricks to make the baby behave.

Yesterday on the bus, I saw a little boy about 3 years old. The little boy carried the smell of a bag of baked sweet potatoes.

After the child found the seat, he opened the bag containing sweet potatoes and took a bite. It looked delicious.

At this time, my father stood in front of him, and my mother stood a little further away.

When the child wanted a second bite, I didn't know what his father remembered, so I suddenly reached out and stopped the child and said, "Stop eating, get off the bus and eat again."

The child is eating delicious food, how can he listen to him? He avoided his father's hand and bowed his head to eat baked sweet potatoes. Dad, keep insisting. In order not to let the children eat, he put the sweet potato bag originally held by the children into his own hands. In this way, the child can't eat any more, and only the spoon for digging sweet potatoes is left in his hand.

Children are anxious if they can't eat sweet potatoes. He jumped out of his seat and rampaged in the carriage. There are not many people waiting for the bus at this time, so he can run a short distance. Afraid that the child would be hurt, the father ran after him, grabbed the child by the collar, carried him back and imprisoned him in front of him.

Then the child kept saying, "Eat sweet potatoes, eat sweet potatoes." As he spoke, he broke the spoon with his hand until it broke into strips. All the passengers in the car were watching the children make trouble, and dad ignored him. Mother has been far away, watching him smile as if talking to herself, and as if explaining to everyone: this child is really naughty, and I don't know what he will become in the future.

I believe that we often see disobedient children in public places, and parents have various ways to discipline them.

What can be done to make children behave themselves?

There is a trick and two types:

First, an attitude: firmly communicate with children in a way that respects them, and don't care about the opinions of people around you.

In public, you will feel that there are many strangers around you, and it is easy to be influenced by the people around you at this time. When something happens, we will consider: if I can't let everyone see that I can control the children, others will definitely laugh or question whether I can control the children.

Do you remember the story of Ceng Zi's murder?

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a clansman with the same name as Zeng Shen killed someone in his hometown of Lunan. Someone reported to Ceng Zi's mother, "I participated in the murder!" At that time, Ceng Zi's mother said, "My son would never kill anyone." Not long after, another man ran to Ceng Zi's mother and said, "Zeng Shen really killed someone outside." Ceng Zi's mother still ignored this sentence. She still sat there unhurriedly, weaving her own cloth as usual. After a while, the third messenger came to Zeng's mother and said, "Zeng Shen did kill someone." Zeng's mother suddenly became nervous. Hurriedly throw away the shuttle in your hand, pick up the ladder and climb over the wall to escape. Although he once participated in Xiande, his mother trusted him, but three people doubted him, so the loving mother didn't believe him either.

Second, the agreement: inform in advance

As far as things are concerned, there is a rule on the bus now: no eating in public places. Therefore, as parents, when we buy baked sweet potatoes, we should make an agreement with our children: we will buy them now, but we won't eat them in the car and eat them at home. If you can't do it, don't buy it now, wait until you get off the bus.

This is the first advance notice agreement.

The second protocol:

Adults are used to telling their children this way:

Don't touch those bowls!

Stop it!

Stop watching TV!

Don't eat your hands!

no ...

But have you ever thought about what children should do if they are not allowed to do it?

So "tell children what to do, not what not to do!"

For example, in this case, parents can tell their children: "Let's count the cars outside, just count your favorite BMW. See how many cars we saw before we got off the bus. Ok? "

Obedience is not an end, but teaching children to obey public rules better can help them become civilized and polite boys.

I hope the above methods can help you.

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