Do you live with your children or by yourself when you are old?

"A sense of security, dependence, happiness and security for the elderly" is the idea of every old man. They hope that they are old, that their children can be filial and support themselves, that their children are their own dependence, and that their children can wrap around their knees and enjoy family happiness, so that they can be truly stable and at ease.

However, the wish is beautiful and the reality is always cruel. I don't know when, many children and the elderly have established a line of defense. If they want to cross the defense line, they must abide by each other's rules, otherwise they will be forced to cross, and the consequences will be unimaginable.

I always hear people around me say that when you are old, you should never live with your children. There will be many things. Once it is not handled well, it will affect feelings. At first, I didn't believe it. After all, how can my son be so filial to me?

When I really live together, I know what is difficult and tired. My son and daughter-in-law all go to work, and it is very hard to go out early and return late every day. As a mother, I naturally have to understand them. In addition to washing, cooking and cleaning, I have to shoulder the task of picking up and dropping off children every day.

It doesn't matter, the main thing is that children have to go to interest classes every day and accompany him. It is difficult for parents to follow suit and come back to coach their children. If you don't learn, the homework of WeChat group can't be completed.

I am so old, my brain is not good, and my smartphone doesn't understand. My son and daughter-in-law have taught me many times, but they still can't. Many times, the teacher asks the parents when the children haven't finished their homework.

If the body permits, help the child.