Your friends are well dressed when they go out, but there is always a pile of rubbish at home. How do you criticize her? The answer must be appropriate!

30 points, little sister. You are too stingy. Why do I feel that I have read this question? At that time, I seemed to say that I would not give points, and it was too stingy to ask so many questions. These questions are simple and common in life. I've seen everything except 567.

1, this is quite embarrassing. I was at her house the first time I went to hang out, which scared me. The clothes in the living room are in a mess, and there are snack bags. What embarrasses me most is the underwear worn on the sofa. She was embarrassed when I said where I should sit. Later, it was cleaner every time I went. And you just embarrassed her. For example,' Wow, where should I sit?' If she has a boyfriend, she will pass on the contradiction that' your boyfriend is really sloppy and has made your family like this'. She won't feel ashamed, and your goal has been achieved.

2. See what your starting point is. My method is "Is this good? I dare not. But you are my best friend and I really want to help you. But can you promise not to indulge in the internet in the future? Watching you surf the Internet has alienated me, and I feel that the distance between you and me is getting farther and farther. " The key is not to say that she has delayed her online study, otherwise his rebellious mentality will come out. You helped him cheat once, but you have to express your fear of cheating in various ways, so that she will feel guilty and your goal will be achieved. Of course, there are even more malicious tricks, that is, cheating is deliberately discovered. This tests your feelings for your friends, which is almost selfless dedication. I used this trick to bring back my buddies who are addicted to World of Warcraft. Because we are not in the examination room, the examination room has a shielding device and the mobile phone can't be used. I can only throw him a cheat sheet on the pretext that I want to go to the bathroom. I threw it to the patrol teacher on purpose. As a result, I was caught and he was found out. Our test paper is useless. I apologize to him first. "I'm sorry I didn't help you." I haven't had such an experience before. "I feel that he felt very sorry for me. And apologize to me. Then he stopped cheating. I hate cheating, cheating once and cheating forever.

This question is very simple. I have been there. Just apologize. When you find your mistake, don't hesitate to apologize immediately. A day's hesitation will make your relationship worse. "I'm sorry, I was wrong about you. Can you forgive me? " Some people may be emotional, and there is nothing to lose by apologizing for a day or two. Sincerity is the most important thing. Of course, if you think your friend doesn't deserve your apology, that's another matter.

4, why not 4? That's weird.

I have experienced a similar situation, but I am not a reference book, I am asking him to do something. I made a direct request and asked politely about the recent situation. Then he told me my request, but he said he was busy these days and had no time. I don't know if it's an excuse, but the direct result is that he didn't help me. If you say so, you should see whose fault it is first. My situation is his fault, so I didn't apologize. If I had done something wrong, I wouldn't have gone to him. Because after apologizing, let people do things for you. Give people a bad feeling, at least make people feel used.

6. Give a gift, or invite him to dinner, or both. But don't be too polite. They are all students. People can always help you, certainly not for the return. It is hypocritical to be too polite. Except in one case, that person has feelings for you. It's up to you. You didn't ask about this situation, and I won't say much.

7. I have encountered this situation, but he is not depressed. If he is depressed, I don't suggest you comfort him, because it will make him feel that it is wrong to speak in dialect, and maybe he will feel inferior. You can say that you want to learn his dialect and let him teach you. In this way, his mood will easily change back and become very positive. Then you can say at the right time that since you have taught me the dialect of your hometown, I will teach you Mandarin. This will be enough to become an interactive state. He won't feel inferior. You have achieved the goal of comforting him, and you can help him change his dialect without his knowledge. Kill three birds with one arrow.

8. I have never been a monitor, but in high school, I was a sports member and a discipline member. I have more real power than the monitor. In this case, I directly ask them to apologize to the teacher. Everyone has left, most of them are under my leadership (this is an opportunity to show your flattery in front of the class teacher, and you can't let it go. )。 Generally, those who make such mistakes are naughty in the class, and those who are naughty in the class are all familiar to me. I advocate fighting violence against these students, but I am not convinced to fight with me. I have the biggest fist in our class. However, it is appropriate to send some sweet dates. Most of these guys are fun-loving, and they often make some small mistakes (nothing in my eyes, besides, I have made more small mistakes than them, and even made big mistakes when I was informed by the school), and I will help them out from time to time when the teacher comes to settle accounts with them. Then they will be very grateful to me. Of course, when something happens to me, they will be on my side.

That's how I handled it. I didn't expect it to be two thousand words smaller when I wrote casually. Give me 30 points, sister. You're not too embarrassed yourself, are you

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