What is the two-part allegorical saying of "burning paper on the grave"?

The two-part allegorical saying of "burning paper on the grave" is: burning paper on the grave-fooling ghosts.

Explanation:

Burning paper money in front of the grave is piety to the dead, but people can't be resurrected after death. Burning paper money is of little practical significance, just fooling yourself, so it is called "being coaxed by your own family." It means to do meaningless things and comfort yourself.

Folk xiehouyu:

Wearing a mask into the coffin-what a shame!

Kissing with a mask-no affection at all.

Walking in the street with a mask ~ shy of meeting people.

Kiss with a mask ~ every other layer

Bow with a hat-isn't it (polite)