Is lovesickness really a disease in science?

British psychologists have found that acacia can not only inspire people to write poems and express their feelings, but also hurt people's spirit and psychology. Acacia is indeed a mental illness, and we should not laugh it off.

According to Agence France-Presse,

Dr Frank torres, a British psychologist, published an article in Psychologist magazine, saying that in the past, madness, depression and confusion caused by love setbacks were often romanticized, and few people took them seriously as medical problems.

Dr Torres warned that severe lovesickness is often fatal.

Ancient doctors created the theory of lovesickness, but in modern times, lovesickness is only used by the public to describe a mental state, which does not belong to the medical field. Media reports are often enclosed in quotation marks, and clinicians will not write the word "lovesickness" when registering cases.

Unrequited lovers often fall into an extremely embarrassing, depressed and troubled situation, which not only affects their studies and careers, but also affects their physical and mental health. So, how to get rid of the trouble of unrequited love? Professor Tang believes that first of all, we should realize that love is the consensual of both men and women, and check whether we have unrealistic expectations or get no response. If so, deny your unilateral love. As the saying goes, twisted melon is not sweet. Love can't be forced, let alone begged.

However, if we analyze it carefully, we will find that lovesickness patients, like the common cold, have the same cause-being injured for love and having the same symptoms-being irritable, depressed or losing their minds. When the illness is mild, patients will make phone calls and check emails uncontrollably; When a patient is terminally ill, he may choose to commit suicide. Dr. Torres said that it is time to seize the time, inherit the theory of ancient medical predecessors and seriously study the treatment of lovesickness. (Ruili Women's Network)

Talk to a psychiatrist about excessive lovesickness.

Common acacia: The first kind of acacia is one-way, that is, unrequited love. For example, You Sanjie in A Dream of Red Mansions, when Jia Lian forced her to get married, in desperation, she said that the person she loved was Liu Xianglian. But because she never confessed to each other, the other party had no chance to get close to her and get to know her. Finally, Liu Xianglian only based on "Jia Fu is clean except for the two stone lions in front of the door!" Rumors resolutely rejected her pure love, forcing her to commit suicide, while Liu Xianglian ran away from home because of remorse.

The second kind of lovesickness is two-way, but if you are paranoid, it will also cause harm to both sides. Liang Zhu's love story belongs to this kind. Liang Zhu and his wife fell in love, but they were opposed by Zhu Yingtai's parents. Liang Shanbo suffered from psychosomatic diseases because he couldn't get love, and finally died of depression. Zhu Yingtai finally committed suicide.

The third kind of lovesickness, on the other hand, is actually a mental illness. Patients often believe that a certain opposite sex has fallen in love with him or her, although they may not say a word. In this regard, patients often have specious explanations, such as thinking that someone is destroying their love and trying to break them up, which is called love delusion in psychiatry.

In the first two cases, patients' words and behaviors can often be understood by people around them, and their problems are mainly psychological, which requires systematic psychotherapy to make them have a calm understanding of emotions and the objective world. The latter case belongs to mental illness, which requires psychotherapy and later psychotherapy to improve their understanding of the problem.

Send a dose of good medicine to the "lovesickness" patients.

Acacia is probably the most painful thing in the world. Light affects work and study, while heavy can affect physical and mental health and even die young. Treating lovesickness and heart disease requires heart medicine. The following is a good medicine for lovesick people.

Relief therapy: express the love that makes you cry to the fullest. If the expression level is not good, it doesn't hurt to cry, shout and make a noise (preferably with yourself). In fact, the ancients growled on the ninth day of September, which was a way to vent their frustration and resentment. Or talk to your close friends. High-level catharsis is to sublimate feelings and devote oneself to artistic creation or study and career. The simplest way to vent is to write out the illness experience in detail like telling a story. If you can write your warm heart on paper, it will certainly relieve your psychological pain.

Aversion therapy: you love him (her) very much, and the other person is ungrateful, and there is not enough reason to think that the other person is excellent. Maybe you have committed the "illusion of love" in the past, and the other person is actually an ordinary and mediocre person. No matter how decent a person is, he will have many shortcomings. At this time, you might as well calm down and find each other's shortcomings, which will help you cool your fiery heart. Then, you will calm down and think of the famous saying "There are plenty of fish in the sea".

Cognitive therapy: study the knowledge of * * seriously. Sex and love are two elements, and they are often combined. At this moment, please learn to decompose * * and extract love. what is love ? Love a person, you don't have to live with him. Love is dedication, unlike sex, which emphasizes combination and possession. True love should be generous and not selfish. Only sex is selfish.

Overcome yourself: inspire personal self-esteem and self-love, and learn to grasp yourself.