How to pursue a humorous girl?

I think humor is very important. If you are a girl, would you communicate with a man who has a serious face all the time and keeps discussing academic matters that you don't understand at all? Or would you communicate with a man who speaks humorously and makes you find it interesting, even though he is knowledgeable? Knowledge is also a manifestation of value, but if you use such boring and monotonous language to show your value, girls will find it boring to talk to you, and some girls will find it difficult to listen to you. Humor and interest are not just words spoken, but also an attitude towards life, the ability to face things calmly, and an art of leadership.

Be versatile. What I mean here is versatility. It doesn’t mean that you can move a paintbrush or shout with two voices, but that you are proficient in a certain thing, such as knowing a certain musical instrument, or singing well. Another example is painting very well.

If you know a few tricks for each item, at most you will only be able to chat with women, but not attract them. It's like starting a business. Instead of doing many projects, it's better to specialize in one. There are actually many ways to show your versatility. The simplest way is to put photos of your talents on the display, such as you playing the guitar, singing in the recording studio, dancing, etc.

Which girl doesn’t like to be beautiful and dress up, but most men don’t like to dress up. When going out on a date, women often put a lot of effort into their faces for at least half an hour, while some men go to the date without even washing their faces. The results can be imagined.

If you have been rejected by a girl, you might as well freeze it for a short period of time according to your understanding of her preferences, and then reappear in front of her with a different look. The so-called change, the most obvious and most efficient change is the change of image. If you change your personality, it may take people around you many days to slowly notice it, but if you change your body style, people around you can see your change at a glance.

The important thing is not what you talk to the girl or what you say, but to conquer her with your confidence and charm, so that no matter what you say, the woman will find it interesting.

If you have been rejected by a girl, you might as well freeze it for a short period of time according to your understanding of her preferences, and then reappear in front of her with a different look. The so-called change, the most obvious and most efficient change is the change of image. If you change your personality, it may take people around you many days to slowly notice it, but if you change your body style, people around you can see your change at a glance.

You must have self-confidence. Personal self-confidence is directly related to the outcome of the matter. If you think you will lose before you start fighting, why are you fighting? Some brothers often do this when dating girls. I don’t know what topic to talk about, I don’t know how to say it, and I am afraid that I will say something wrong, and then the girl will run away. In fact, it all comes from your lack of confidence in your own self-construction. You think that through these so-called rhetorical topics, you can solve the problem. The girl stays, but the most fundamental thing is you. The girl wants to get in touch with you as a person, not with your words or topics.