Let's live this life, don't mess around with these three things, and now that we're married, let's live it well, shall we?

Sheng said in Do You Know that we came to this world once to live a good life.

But many people have never managed their lives well all their lives. Their attitude towards life has been muddling along from the beginning. Of course, it can't be entirely their fault, because their parents don't manage their lives well, and their parents just muddle along in their lives.

Parents are the children's first teachers. If parents are like this, children will live like this.

I would like to remind all parents and comrades that even if it is not for themselves, even for children, don't dawdle.

Gu said in Know No: "I'm not the kind of person who doesn't have fish and shrimp, and neither are you."

I think this sentence is really good. Gu Hesheng is not the kind of person who is good without fish and shrimp. I sincerely hope that we are not the kind of people who are inferior to fish and shrimp.

We came to this world once to live a good life. I don't live for mediocrity.

How to do it? Everyone's situation is different. Here, I only give you three kinds of "fooling around" couples, and you should at least not be any of these three kinds.

"lazy couples who only care about the present happiness and ignore the future"

One of my parents' brothers is lazy, so is marrying a wife. They gave birth to two children, but they didn't care much about cleanliness from childhood.

In this era, two girls are sloppy when walking in the street. From head to toe, it is greasy, even dirt.

The hair of two girls is often long and dirty. Especially in midsummer, my brother's two children go to school, and the children in the class don't want to be in the same class with them. Because it stinks. The teacher tells my brother and his wife to take care of the children almost every day, and they also have self-esteem.

However, it is completely useless, and no one can say it. My brother's father, in summer, went to help his two granddaughters get some medicine every day to prevent them from getting lice. My brother's mother washes herself whenever she meets two granddaughters.

But my brother and sister-in-law don't care about their children at all, and they are not active in their work. When they earn money, they are all blind. They are really blind, they buy expensive clothes and shoes, and they are often thrown only once because they are not washed.

They have been married for ten years and have no savings. Children go to school and have to go out to borrow money. But that's the truth, and the two of them are still fooling around like this.

Sometimes, when I stand in their yard that is dirtier than a garbage dump, I often think that it is really boring to live like this all my life. I am so untidy now that I can't afford the future. They are all eating, drinking and having fun for life, being laughed at by people around them and dragging down children.

But that's how people live. You can borrow money if you have no money. If you can't borrow money, you will raise two children in poverty. As for the future, people don't do whatever they want.

"Make-do couples who don't want to live a good life without divorce"

I read a story from the Internet the other day. A woman smashed everything in her house. Look carefully, it's all smashed, not only worthless things you don't want, but also the TV refrigerator and home decoration.

My first reaction was that these two people didn't want to live. However, in the interview, the woman who smashed things didn't want a divorce at all. She doesn't want a divorce or a good life, so she lives like a "dissatisfied housewife".

It's hard for women not to get divorced. It's the same for men. It's hard not to get divorced. Men are not active in earning money and doing nothing. A woman is not easy, he is more difficult than a woman. When a woman breaks something, he hangs around outside and doesn't go home for days and nights. Women are even more angry when they see him not coming home, so there is another wave of smashing things.

I sometimes think, is it necessary to maintain such a marriage that neither of us wants to live a good life?

But many couples make do with blindness in this way. They don't talk about love or not, nor how to live a better life. They just complain and hate each other, and no one will let anyone have a good life.

In fact, I sincerely advise such a couple: it is better to get married than not to get married. Restrain your temper and think more about how to run your marriage. Even if it is, the other half is not reliable, at least you have to live a good life. Don't break the jar.

We must live for something.

"Couples who are allowed to betray and fool around with each other"

My husband told me about a couple he met when he was working in Beijing.

Women can earn a lot of money. She and her husband bought a house, a car and a baby in a big city like Beijing. Supposedly, their life is so good that they should live well.

However, this woman betrayed her marriage. She didn't avoid anyone, including her husband. And her husband, also chose silence on this matter.

I think this is incredible. Later, my husband told me that his husband also betrayed his marriage. The two of them just live together, and who plays with whom.

I suddenly feel sorry for my children. How can children who grew up in such a family environment establish their correct three views?

In Qin's Daughter's Choice, her father betrayed his marriage, found another woman outside and gave birth to a child. Her mother also has someone else in her heart, and regards that person in her heart as her own Bai Yueguang.

But they just don't get divorced. They think it is good for their children, but in fact, Qin has lived in the hypocrisy of her parents since she was a child, and she is completely afraid of marriage.

When she grew up, she got pregnant before marriage, divorced after giving birth, and completely rebelled against life. She doesn't even dare to love the person she really loves. When she felt that she really loved a man, she began to fear that she would become a parent after marriage. With this in mind, she completely pushed out the man who loved her and loved her.

Really, don't be the third kind of "fooling around" husband and wife, because it will have a great impact on children. If you get married and have children, you must be responsible for them. When you make a mess of your life, please think about what your children should do.

In this article, I went home to see my friends on National Day, and that's how I got along. Finally, there is a paragraph I want to write to couples who have never thought about living a good life:

Marriage is never what you think. When we get married and have children, we have to understand one thing. Love between husband and wife is the best. If we can't love each other, at least you should live a good life.

Don't let him pass, you broke the jar. It's no use complaining about throwing things, nor drinking to drown your sorrows.

The only thing that can cure you is work.

It is better to strengthen yourself and give yourself the right to choose marriage than to break the jar. I hope you can understand these truths as soon as possible, and don't completely delay your child's life because of your "stupidity".